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Hey TeeJay,

Not a girl so not sure whether my advice is all that great but here it is, for what it's worth.

As deeply frustrating as it might sound, I honestly think you have to just do your...

Should have emphasized the fact that although I am smitten I realize I might have nothing in common with her, so when I say "without agenda, or expectation", I mean it. Would I like to take her out...

Hey everybody,

I have a fairly simple question for you. Basically, I have been single for nearly a year now and am just beginning to date again after a very meaningful relationship. I am a good...

My girlfriend left me nearly four months ago and we have, by and large, been no contact for the last two (we have occasionally contacted each other, almost exclusively for non-relationship reasons)....

vampiress - don't want to get into a debate on someone else's thread but wonder if you could expand a bit?

Please tell me why anyone would feel insecure enough to cheat if they are happily in love...

Sorry guys, I just think this idea that people cheat through insecurity is a convenient excuse. Perhaps not when you are first with someone and you have yet to build a foundation as a couple, but...

Seriously, whatever you do, don't go in to a Mcdonald's wearing a suit and tell the shy girl you like that "the bathroom is dirty"!

Not sure if this was a joke, but I hope it was! It's not the way...

^ I largely agree with the above, although I think you can expect to feel the same high again despite being older.

Marriage means different things to different people, but whichever side you fall...

Sorry - that was incredibly badly worded. I don't mean fun in a 'no commitment way', I just mean fun with someone who wants to go out and do a few exciting things. I have the sense that we would have...

PS: Yet Another Guy - She might very well not be as mature as the girls of my age, but to be honest, having got out of a pretty intense relationship a few months back, I actually just want to have...

Thanks everyone - I'll go for it, and see what she says...

Thanks for your reply - I think exactly the same thing but it's always nice to hear other people's views. I have dated older and younger people before and really don't think there is much correlation...

Hi all,

Just a quick question I would like to hear opinions on. I met a girl when TAing at University and liked her straight away (we talked a little outside of class about the things we enjoyed...

Glad to hear you are feeling a bit better about this. I too found out that my girlfriend had cheated on me after two and a half years of incredible closeness, trust and love. The hardest part for me...

I actually moved into a new apartment and there were a few bits of junk lying around in a drawer I never used. One of these was a fancy hairclip, which my then-girlfriend found and was very...

Hi all,

This is a very simple question really but I am very interested to hear the opinions of women. Basically, three months ago, my ex left me after a two-and-a-half-year relationship that was...

Hi lostabroad,

I'm glad you replied. As I say, I found it helpful to constantly write down my feelings as well as speaking about them to friends and family.

I think I know almost exactly how...

Hello lostabroad,

Let me say how very sorry I am to hear about this awful situation. I have gone through something pretty similar the past two months (I have my own thread in this forum - Seven...

Thanks for your replies guys and girls.

I think the finality of it is the hardest thing to deal with. For two and a half years, every single decision out of the thousands made every day, was made...

Completely agree with moosegal - send a letter but not that one. It is too much, but you should be honest and tell her how you feel and that you love her and want to try to make a go of things (if...

Thanks for this advice - I have been considering a therapist but finances are very tight at the moment and, although I suspect many people say the same thing, I don't believe it would help me.

I...

So, I will try to keep this as brief as possible.

I met a girl who changed everything for me two and a half years ago; she put light in my life where that had not been any before, she changed my...