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well keep being distant until she says "I want you back". Give her one month to say it and if she doesnt, you need to tell her you cant be friends so you can get over her and move on

okay i think you should ask her to meet you for coffee and ask her does she still love you, ask her is it really that she is not coping with everything or does she just not want you. ask her to be...

honesy i think you broke any chance of a future with her when that whole thing with the other girl happened.

can you explain that in more detail? did you dump rachel for her? did you cheat? sorry...