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Try not to worry about this too much, i told my guy i loved him first, early on in our relationship and he didnt say it back either, he just wasnt ready.

I didnt push it with him and i did...

I think all you can do then is be honest and open about how you feel and that something's missing for you and instead of stringing the relationship, her and yourself along it's only fair that you...

How long have you been dating and has the "L" word come into the equation from either side?

I would just be honest with her and as the above poster says, do it face to face, it's kinder and more...

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No your fiends are not wrong for ringing you, they saw something they thought you needed to know and told you. What you did with the information after that is your business. I would...

Yes I did, I said it a few times and asked him why he hadn't and he simply said he wasn't there with it yet because he's been hurt in the past, he did give me a little something about 6 months after...

My boyfriend said it to me nearly a year after me, I admit I was quite soon with the declaration but it's because I felt it, I did say it a couple of times again before he actually said it to me, he...

It wasn't personal to me at all, it was a question I put to the board as it was a debate a few of us were having at work yesterday and there were a decided split between the guys and gals and I...

I know they do, I was just asking for guys perspectives on it, if they did it and why......your answer is what I thought as well.

To all the guys and gals on the boards, why do men feel the need to flirt (if you do) when in a committed relationship, is it attention, something missing, low self esteem or just seen as innocent,...

Flirting is not good when in a relationship, I think you both need to find a compromise as you find it ok and she doesn't so meet somewhere in the middle. If you're in a serious relationship though...

My boyfriend is very defensive and short tempered and I find the best way to deal with him is to remain calm, ask him why he's getting short tempered and ask him not too and try to sit and talk to me...

I have been with my boyfriend for two years and it took him over a year to tell me that he loves me, he is also a shy guy and has trouble vocalising his feelings or any emotions to be honest, he is...

He must have some sort of feelings for you as he keeps coming back, I know it's hard and sometimes it seems too hard and you wonder why you bother. Have you tried making yourself a little less...

If it was me I would say stick with it but have a time in your head that you will stick to if things don't improve. Some guys are slow on the uptake, I have been with my guy for 2 yrs now and for...

Has he ever given you a reason for not wanting a relationship with you, do you know anything about his past relationships or if he has a girlfriend now?

I've been in your situation and it sucks!!

Are either of you in a relationship with anyone else? If not, then message him and see what the response is, he might be feeling as confused as you.

I would say if he's hiding things from you and getting defensive when questioned, there's a lot more going on than just an innocent chat with work colleagues. However that being said, some people,...

Thanks Archie, men and women are built so differently so it's good that there are so many people on here willing to share their thoughts and feelings, to help others.

No not at all we have been through a bit of a rough patch recently with him feeling scared of committing and opening his heart to me but over the last few weeks he has talked it through with me and...

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Are there any guys on here that have been badly hurt in the past and take their time to fall in love again?

Has he got a girlfriend and just got a bit carried away with drinking and the Chritsmas spirit? Does he work near you, where you can accidentally bump into him at all?

Does she give you a reason as to why she keeps talking to them? Is she insecure, does she crave attention, these are the only reasons I can see as to why she would keep talking to them. They used...

Couldn't agree more.

What did they do?

As I am reading this, The Big Bang Theory comes straight to mind LOL!!

I think it's a great idea and someone has to make the first move, so why not you. A special event can bring people in from...