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You may have invaded my dreams last night, but that doesn't mean you'll be on my mind all of today. In my dream I was civil, even friendly to you. I haven't felt like being friendly to you at all for...

By the way, after reading some other old threads in this forum I realized I forgot to mention what the last contact we had was.

It was a few months ago, I think in January or February, not quite...

Wow, I would be SUPER pissed if I were you. I mean come on ... your university graduation and he almost screws it up because he can't take matters into his own hands??

Something kind of similar...

That really depends what city you've moved to! Different cities have different atmospheres and climates which dictate what many people do with their free time.

If you are nearby some nice, natural...

Hey guys!

So I just got a sweet little birthday message from my ex's mom, simply saying "late but not forgotten birthday wishes to you, be well." She is one of the kindest and sweetest people I...

The tunnel may be too long to see the light yet, but have hope that there is a light there, and you'll be able to see it if you keep on trying.

Thanks Smackie! ... when I started this thread I was still in a fog of hurt and confusion, but even just from posting more and reading replies it has made me progress some.

Well, apparently she didn't care as much about the relationship as you did. No one can tell you how long to grieve for, I think it's different for everyone ... as long as you're trying to continue...

Time will help, just give it a chance. I know how hard it is to concentrate on school when your mind is in this state, but just do your best. Try to put her out of your mind (sounds impossible, but...

By the way ... I find it extremely therapeutic to write about my feelings here! It's like magic! It makes me feel so much better just to get it out of me somehow. I'm a fairly private person and I...

You are too nice! Goodness ... that is so nice. : )

Yes, I sometimes seem to forget the fact that I was perfectly happy without a boyfriend, and I can be perfectly happy without one again (maybe...

Thank you kindly!... I have a naturally cheery personality so it's quite hard for me to be down for too long ... I'm not saying I'm over it already, but I suppose I'm recovering better than I had...

Thanks everyone, this is all helpful. : )

Haxan: I have no boyfriend at the moment... I'm collecting advice for the future. But that's still helpful, thanks!

Ahh you are so kind! I'll get by with a little help from my friends : ) Including the people on this forum.

I read a wonderful quote today that shook me up a little: "Failing to forgive is like...

I am triumphing over you. A couple of months ago I thought I would be obsessed with you in vain until the day I die. Now, I can honestly say that I am getting close to the point where I will no...

Thanks for the reply! (Liked the "tastes differ" comment... heh heh heh!)

From the way my ex spoke of it, it sounded like something that was necessary for a good relationship. Maybe for him that's...

Yeah! I actually have a couple Burt's Bees lip balms, not tinted ones though. I didn't realize they had tinted ones. Thanks, I'll have to look into that. The brand in general is not too expensive,...

I think Missanthrope is right in saying that having sex with someone else is still cheating whether it's with a guy or girl. But it sounds like she's not going to cheat on you (the fact that she...

Ok, so I'm rather inexperienced. I'm not a virgin, but I've never done oral.

My question is, did you enjoy it the first time (either giving or receiving), and before you had any, did the thought...

Thanks Indi! That's helpful. I live in Vancouver, too. Hope to see those in Whole Foods! (I'll avoid "Gabriel Cosmetics" ... the name of my ex. lol.)

Well, everyone has their own opinions on this...

Well, I did do a project for the David Suzuki Foundation that centred on cosmetic ingredients, and some of them have actually been proven to be harmful to health. Yeah, maybe the main reason for me...

Smackie: thanks! I know it would help things, wearing makeup and all. I would probably even feel pretty, for once! : P I just have this sense of giving in to society if I do, because I really don't...

Lol, I'm sorry it's so long ... I just can't stop writing when I really get going.

In a nutshell: I'm naive and inexperienced for my age, and I got dumped by my first love/first relationship and...

Oh good, I'm glad I'm not the only one who is perhaps not interested in oral! From the things I've read on these forums it sounds almost like a requirement of a good relationship ... : S

Heh yes,...

Well, I'm not really an overly dramatic person, I don't think. I'm going to go ahead and chalk it up to the fact that it was my first relationship, I was too much in love, and didn't know what I was...