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Everything you say makes sense! I know this, but its just not that easy at the moment.

Also: this girl was always very nice around me, we had nice chats, teased eachother... I really had the idea...

I know, I know. Its just not easy for someone who almost never has a crush on someone (in all honesty: its the second time ever I feel this for a girl and I am 28).
Its easier said than done....

I know you are right, but its just not that easy! lol

I have had a crush on this girl for months before I asked her out. I am also the type of person that hardly ever falls in love.

It will...

Yes, this makes sense.
I will do this.

I had to talk to her a few times the last few days for professional reasons and she is always friendly/answers my questions, but I do notice she will not...

How long should I wait than?

At the moment I do not feel I should ask since she is avoiding me (at least thats how it looks).



Ok, but you situation is a bit different, you dont really know...

Well actually I made her laugh a lot in the past.. we really got along very well...

She is shy so perhaps thats why she hesitated... I asked her and she mumbled something/didnt say something and...

I had to "push" her to give me a yes or no ... she was not really saying a lot, so no she did not give me a reason.
Stupid as I was, I also did not ask for the reason, I do regret this now, but I...

For the girls here:

if you say no to someone when he asked you out, what would you think if this guy told you after a while he still has feelings for you? Or asked you out again?

Story in...

Indeed, that was my plan. I hope I can keep quiet and not start a talk myself.
I will do this.
I will only reply/talk to her is she starts a talk, but not more. Should I interact than? I mean if...

well, the problem is we work at the same place. So I cant have no contact at all. I'll just stop having small talk with her. Not more than just "goodmorning" or "good evening".
I still dont...

Well, its not because she said no that all of a sudden I dont like her anymore. The feelings are still there. I do hope they go away if she is really no interested (which she is not I guess). I just...

So,

I finally dared to ask a girl out that I like. We had some nice talks, laughs in the past altough more recently she seemed to have changed.
Since I did not want to wait any longer and really...