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She told you she's in a relationship. Your last relationship was ruined by another guy moving in on your GF. Do you really want to be "that guy" doing the same to her relationship?

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Unconditional love might require people to put up with a lot of crap. Lots of people won't do that with family members or friends. You have been very lucky to have close family relationships. An...

Got it .. you want her to act like a madonna outside the bedroom and a whore while in one. She has to put on a "good girl" act for your friends and family. I'm with her on this one. Why should she be...

Did you start dating her before you knew she was this way? If not you have no right to complain now. If so, well you two don't seem to be a good match in personalities.

Totally agree. There are people I went to school with that look like hell and much older. The 40's and beyond is when your lifestyle and genetics catch up to you. I just turned 50 and people have...

At your ages what difference does it really make? Come on now. You enjoy each others company and she looks great. What is the problem? Get over the old fashioned notion that a woman must be younger...

From what I've seen a lot of guys panic around age 30. Maybe it's the loss of being in your carefree 20's that scares them. Looks like your crush has many friends who are now settling down and having...

That is the first way to go. Keep an eye on her and observe her mood patterns. If she starts to have more happy days and less sad ones this is a good sign. If she swings back and forth or stays down...

What is so "perfect" about your relationship? Why are you two amazing together? Give us some positives about this relationship and why you should stay together. It better be more than "we have fun...

Working in the medical profession can be very difficult. The hours are often long and tiring. Doctors, families and patients can be demanding. If you work with critically ill patients it's especially...

Yes, I said SOME people (not all) use sex as a way to connect and not feel alone. Maybe it wasn't the case for you but it is true for some. I still think the gal in question is insecure given the...

She sounds like a woman who is very insecure. Some people like this, as I mentioned before, have sex (one night stands) because they don't want to be alone. Sex is the way they connect with someone....

Wow, you've been going out with the wrong women if you feel they can be devious. Though I do agree some are and know how to use men. There are some men like that too.

As for the woman in...

23 and 31 isn't much of a gap. However at those ages you could both be looking for very different relationships.

Most of the guys I've known have had a tough time entering their 30's. It's at...

"I'll be honest I feel quite gutted inside. I was totally not expecting that response. Not sure if it's the hangover but I have a really bad case of the blues. The thing is I really liked her, on the...

As mentioned by smackie9 check the policies set by your HR department first regarding this issue. Some companies don't allow it since it could lead to a sexual harassment suit if things go badly.
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Interesting that you posted this topic as "Age Difference". I think that's one big problem here. She is 20, barely out of her teens. You are 28, heading towards the maturity of the 30's. At this time...

It's only been a few weeks since you broke up. Given the way you are feeling it will take a longer time for you to work out the issues surrounding the breakup and to become a confident person. I...

The texting seems excessive for a friend. It may not be cheating .. YET .. but can easily lead to it if this continues. While I think it's fine to be friends with the opposite sex her major attention...

Well there's the answer to why she is doing this. She gets off by watching you with other girls. She probably thinks you would get off by watching her with another guy. She wants to try a foursome?...

I like this idea. Find out what the real arrangements are. Even if it is true that the party and hotel rooms are only for employees that doesn't mean that people will stay in their assigned rooms....

I think you handled it fine. You needed to actually talk to her and sooner rather than later to clear this issue up. She needed to hear how angry you were and why. Good for you on standing your...

Please don't start "planning our lives together" at this age. If she senses that you are thinking in these terms I don't blame her for backing off. Both of you should be enjoying life, having fun,...

While it's not unusual to think about marriage at 18 it IS too young to go through with it IMO. Both of you have a lot of growing up to do, with or without one another. There is no need to rush such...

Many women like to vent and are looking for agreement, validation of what they feel. That's what we often give to one another. It's not about fixing a problem but offering support in most cases. They...