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Yeah, I think that's my main problem. Everything I do with her I subconsciously compare it to that of my ex. I don't want to do that and i'm hoping that it will just go away over time. I'm just...

My first love, not my first girlfriend. I'm 23 years old and at this point i've had several.

I guess what I also didn't mention is that the last girl was my first love. Which is making it even harder.

My ex of 2 years put me through hell and back while we were together. Cheated on me, lied to me, gave me the run around, everything. Eventually about 7 months ago I broke up with her. I told her I...

And i'm still pissed off about it because she now is saying that she never had a problem with telling those stories to any of her previous bf's but that since it's such a big issue with me she's...

damnit, I wrote on a whole response and this stupid site logged me out and didn't let me post it.... anyways the end of what I said is that she sent me a text message this morning saying "I love you...

Long story short i've been dating this girl for almost a month now, long distance. She's someone i've known for awhile but only recently started to date. She has told me that she believes the most...

As someone who's been there, CUT THIS GIRL THE AXE!

Chances are that she doesn't really want you or love you as she says, but that she loves having control over you and wants to have you around...

yes, a little bit of what both of you are saying. In one sense I think of her in an angry and bitter way, almost hoping she's unhappy and miserable (even though I know she's probably on to the next...

Is this normal? So basically my ex and I dated for 2 years from June 08 to July 09. Long story short, she cheated on me more than once and I just found them all out one at a time. It really hurt me...

Exactly.....

Chatting with friends doesn't really help you not to desire the girl that you want to cut ties with. At least it doesn't with me.

There's not even anyone I'm trying to date right now based on just looking at stories and advice. Just an idea to get to know someone new (without the physicality aspect) to take my mind off of...

^^ Yes, and the thread idea was the "getting to know them" part... Anyways I guess nobody likes the idea so forget about it.

So if i randomly PM'd somebody saying I was interested it wouldn't be taken in a bad way?

Yeah, it could be... But how would you know what situatioin the person is or there status prior to doing that?

I put he "speed dating" in brackets to imply that I don't actually consider it dating. I just meant like a way for the users to get to know each other one on one.

Don't be too hard on me, it was just a passing thought:

I've read through this forum a lot and I see that there are a lot of people in a lot of different stages.. Obviously that's the reason we...

It sucks because I do have alternatives but I don't want any of them.. Girls have come and gone, i've gone on dates, but when i'm out with them she's the one on my mind. My ex gf knew that and that's...

The worst part of it is that he's her option and i'm her option. It's so hard for me to just walk away.

No but that's the thing. While telling me all along that she's losing love for him and that she wants to be with me etc etc... when he broke up with her she said the exact opposite how she loves him...

Yeah I agree. And as for the physical stuff it happened a lot in the beginning and then it kind of died down and only happened when things were rocky with she and him (aka them being "seperated"). So...

You know, its funny. One of my friends in real life told me the exact same thing. And what I told him is that the dude WASN'T hitting it. There's a reason for me to have been as close to her as I was...

Yes, I certainly did rationalize the situation, that much is obvious. But no this girl is not some heavenly saint with me being satan's spawn. When she told me she had a bf initially (after hooking...

Actually she is that type... Hence the reason she hooked up with me in the first place.