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    then he wrote me a long long letter. starting...

    then he wrote me a long long letter. starting with "well since I see we will most likely not see each other and not talk again, I want to write you a goodbye letter.." and then wrote about everything...
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    I finally did it!! Told him I'M DONE !!

    and I want to stop all contact with him.

    I feel like I deserve a standing ovation ;]

    Feeling so strong and empowered now!

    and that this deserves a separate post.

    ok ok you all told me...
  3. Thread: Struggling!

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    that's it. Just texted him that our situation...

    that's it.
    Just texted him that our situation no longer satisfies me and doesn't give me any joy and that we shouldn't see each other anymore.

    I literally feel my stomach twisting...
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    ou're welcome WiltedRose I hope it will help you....

    ou're welcome WiltedRose I hope it will help you.

    It has been over 4 months since my break up. We broke up around the middle of March... But we are still staying "friends" and seeing each other...
  5. thank you guys for this. I know I need to make...

    thank you guys for this. I know I need to make some new friends and don't be so scared to open up and become close to people. Maybe I'll manage to do that when I finish studying. I just have...
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    this is probably the hardest thing after a break...

    this is probably the hardest thing after a break up like this. the fear of never ever feeling that way with anyone again. I feel the exact same thing.
    And I think in general I totally understand...
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    I also think I need to leave this forum at least...

    I also think I need to leave this forum at least for a while.
    I thank you all for your support and insights and all the advice given. It all made things much clearer to me and helped me a lot.
    I...
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    Thank you pcmaster for your insight, but I don't...

    Thank you pcmaster for your insight, but I don't completely agree with you.
    I have really thought about leaving him a few times already. I understand that would be much better for me in a long...
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    Glad I could help:] And about that saying...

    Glad I could help:] And about that saying "thanks" - it's just my personal feeling, so I thought maybe she felt similar. Would actually be interesting to hear what other girls think about this.
  10. terribly lonely and extreme fear of rejection/abandonment..

    Hello all. I have been through a crazy emotional and mental roller-coaster due to a relationship with my ex and I recently came to realize that I have some real mental issues myself. I really need...
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    First of all, I work out a bit too, but holding a...

    First of all, I work out a bit too, but holding a plank for 23 minutes!! WOW! She's really something.
    I only read the last two posts, but I get the impression that she has more self issues than...
  12. Thread: I'm Obsessed

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    I totally agree with pcmaster. And I am a big...

    I totally agree with pcmaster. And I am a big believer that you can fix yourself from outside - in. I mean you can just focus on working out - like really make it your goal to get really fit and add...
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    WiltedRose It's so great to hear that about...

    WiltedRose
    It's so great to hear that about you! I am really happy for you! I hope you can keep this up and stick to your plans through the whole summer and stay happy :] And I bet your girls will...
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    Well what you're saying is very true. And in this...

    Well what you're saying is very true. And in this case - his life is a real mess right now and he is also not happy with himself, so he really just wants to sort all that out before starting a...
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    thank you for replying:] I really needed this...

    thank you for replying:] I really needed this today;]
    it does feel like there really could be a relationship and a really good one between us. I even remember one friend asking me "so what are you...
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    Need some warm hugs and reassuring words today......

    Need some warm hugs and reassuring words today...

    Last night we went out like every wednesday to a pub quiz night.
    And I had one too many beers and feel quite hungover today.
    And it's cold and...
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    pcmaster thank you for caring:] I had some...

    pcmaster thank you for caring:]
    I had some realizations over the weekend. I wouldn't say I got over him already, at least not completely. But I am calm now and found some inner peace finally. I...
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    Well, I would suggest you just talk to your mum...

    Well, I would suggest you just talk to your mum and explain her everything. It's better she finds that out from you than someone else.

    And about all those guys. I would suggest you stay away from...
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    I am happy to hear that about the prom:] can't...

    I am happy to hear that about the prom:] can't see the pictures though..;[ (says "This album does not have any photos.")
    Even more happy to hear that you are ok now;] Hope you will manage to stop...
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    Well, been going through getting over someone as...

    Well, been going through getting over someone as well recently and what helped me the most was working out (running - really helps to clear your head and get a rush of endorphins) and focusing on my...
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    Oh no! Don't give up on girls! There are plenty...

    Oh no! Don't give up on girls! There are plenty of nice sweet kind-hearted girls out there. Just a few b*tches came your way and you want to give up? No! Have some faith;] I understand it's like...
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    I am trying my best..but it's so hard......

    I am trying my best..but it's so hard... Sometimes I do feel much better and really think he's and stupid a**hole and I get mad at him and fell like I am really worth so much more
    But then there are...
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    Awww..so sorry to her about your argument with...

    Awww..so sorry to her about your argument with your mum. But I hope it will pass, she is your mum after all;]
    And, yes of course take a week away with your girls if you can. it will definitely help...
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    Thank you Snow White for really opening my eyes,...

    Thank you Snow White for really opening my eyes, the more stuff you are saying the more I realize how right you are. It of course makes me feel horrible about myself...
    How could I let him have...
  25. Thread: I feel dead

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    thank you Feelinworthless I am trying to to...

    thank you Feelinworthless
    I am trying to to let him go and set myself free from him. But even though I finally have some closure and I am starting to get over him, I still hope we will be together...
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