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Thanks Saya and Searock...you've both made me more confident in my decision :)

Thank you, GiovanniByron, for taking the time to respond. It helps me be more positive that I did the right thing.

I did do something too, that made my ex bf mad, which I didn't include in my...

My father 's health is deteriorating from Cancer, and I've been spending the last few weeks in the hospital. I was in a long distance relationship, and it bothered me that in the past couple weeks, ...

Yep. I've ventured into a nother long-distance relationship because I just can't seem to find the right type of man locally. But, I've decided that if all goes well, I will move to the states (I...

Appreciate your input/opinion. However, I went on a marriage/matrimonial website, not a dating website. Things move pretty fast in my culture, and exclusivity is seen as a sign that someone is really...

So I've just met an apparently confident and charismatic man on an internet marriage site. He lives in the states, and I live in Canada. We met on Skype about 5 days ago, and chatted for a while.
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i am from a south asian culture too

oh and to answer your questions - sorry i haven't, no disrespect intended.
I am 29 yrs old, and i knew him just for 3 weeks now.

Riku - if you read the above responses by other users on this forum, there are several people (who are probably not from my cultural background) who agree with me that asking a question about asking...

[QUOTE=Riku;723980]I'm not close minded at all, I just think you are a liar and a hypocrite to be perfectly honest.

totally unfair, cause you are taking what i said out of context. in the first...

I prove my point that you are closed minded. Not everyone is self-concious about not having sex by the time they reach 30. Some people choose not to have sex prior to marriage, due to cultural or...

thanks again everyone for your inputs...its very interesting to see your different answers. i still don't think a question like "have you had sex before" is invalid...for those of you who assume that...

actually i don't consider myself pure...but i haven't given anyone handjobs, or blowjobs, or received any....

yes, in Canada! Canada is quite multicultural now....and cultural differences can still have a strong influence.

thanks everyone for your inputs...

I hope devon is right here, about him lying about this specific issue only. I hope that's the case. This guy keeps telling me over and over again he wants...

no clue what i will do wakeup. i'm confused!

if anyone has advice would be appreciated.

i feel like such a slut too, cause i like fooling around with him, am major attracted to him, but i'm not...

wakeup...

appreciate your input, but we are complete strangers and so please don't make assumptions about me. yes i'm a virigin, and no, i don't see the fact that he had sex before as a failure!...

wakeup - may be you didn't get the jist of what i just said. i am not looking for a virgin... i'm looking for someone who's honest with me...i don't care the number of times and i never asked...

While getting to know my boyfriend, I asked him if he ever had sex (he's 37 yrs old, and so I was really expecting he did many times) and he said no, he never had.

Later on we were just talking in...

i just read all your posts elleda. i'm going through the exact same thing you are! I decided to end it with my bf..he said the sweetest things and EXACTLY what i wanted to hear, but his actions never...

thanks again everyone for your opinions/advice.
After the last "happy birthday" email from him a few days ago (and no call), I didn't write back to the email. I really needed some space to think...

it was actually my birthday today and he ended up sending me an email (but not calling). He said happy birthday birthday girl.!!! hope you have a very fun day and get everything you want, etc. i will...

i think i am going to end it. no matter how busy it gets, he should have at least 1 minute to text me hello too. why do i always have to be the first one to text? :(

When I first started my relationship with my boyfriend a few months ago, we would talk/txt everyday. He would write me back within minutes, if not hours, or the lastest the next day. He introduced me...

When I first started my relationship with my boyfriend a few months ago, we would talk/txt everyday. He would write me back within minutes, if not hours, or the lastest the next day. He introduced...