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Alright... although nobody answered my last post, I still decided to continue expanding this thread-- even if there's no further discussion growing here, maybe SOME guy in a similar situation will...

Big no-no! I haven't been around on this forum for long, but I can't even begin to count how many times I've given this same advice: Get in her pants first, THEN talk about feelings! This may sound...

Yeah, I second that. Of course that's sad for you, Bon24, but no need to sugar-coat anything, I've gone through relationships like that myself.

To make it easier for you, why don't you just create...

So, for those of you who care, here's how the whole thing ended:

Contrary to some people's advice here, I didn't decide to pressure her. I understand your reasoning, and that might be OK in 99% of...

You asked for honest opinions... so here it goes.

I've given almost the same advice to other people in similar situations.

1. Texting everyday? WAY TOO MUCH! First off: If you can't talk to her...

That's the same question I would have asked.

How can this even be possible? 24 years and not a single kiss?!

As for the kiss itself: Just enjoy it whenever it happens! I had my first kiss with...

100 miles? That shouldn't be an issue, should it?

Go and meet her. IN REAL LIFE. Then we can talk again.

As for now, you're just attracted to what you THINK she is like.

Like the others...

Thumbs up for that!

This.

And remember: Going overboard with the first present will only raise expectations for future birthday presents. I don't like that. Go with a "personal" gift, or something you both enjoy...

Hm... sounds weird.

After reading the first paragraph, I was about to say what the hell are you doing? In fact there is no commitment, but he still has all the benefits (namely: sex).

But then...

This thread is great!

I can fully relate to what you're saying. It's not like I'm in a relationship right now, in fact I'm afraid my current affair is going down the tubes (for other reasons than...

Just take a look at what lahnnabell said, that's exactly what I'd suggest too.

Man, your thread brought a smile to my face.

To answer your question: I've been in this butterfly mood for about the last ten years, no bullshit.

But that's not a fun thing, believe me....

Yeah, well, I can't disagree with that: That's certainly ONE way to find out. Nonetheless, given the circumstances right now, I'd go with a different approach.

But don't take what I say for...

You should ALWAYS prefer calling instead of texting-- too many things can go wrong (or be interpreted the wrong way) if you're texting.

Apart from that: I second what sasharose said, it sounds a...

This is absolutely true.

Just to stress my point: Dating other girls will definitely make him ease up, and maybe not suffer THAT HARD.

I'm not saying he can make his feelings vanish that way....

True, most guys would run from a girl like that-- for good reasons!

Listen, I concur with everything the other posters suggested in this thread, especially with the advice to get her some...

To be honest: Your post made me scratch my head...



Come on... you got to be kidding me: You really WANT her to be happy with SOMEONE ELSE? Stop that crap... that's nonsense... and you know it....

I think that's what it comes down to: You don't feel that he's the one!

You never know if someone is "the one", you never know if you're just viewing that somebody through rose-colored glasses.
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Two pieces of advice for you:

1. Google the term "oneitis", and then come back.

2. Add her on facebook. What's creepy about that? You accidentally saw her, thought of that nice party, and then...

I can relate to what you're saying, really. But you just directly admitted it... you've fallen for someone else.

That's nothing anybody has control over, NOBODY can blame you for that. It is what...

I agree with the name calling, but that's just how it is on the interwebz.



WTF? That's even worse. Listen, I never cheated on a woman. However, I'm not saying I never will. Give me the right...

You're BEGGING for appreciation.

I understand where you're coming from, I really do. But the fault is within you, it's not about her not giving you everything you need. Learn to give this...

Well, I'm not going to judge you for having an affair (or something alike).

But statements like "I don't want to end up alone" make me sick. Combine that with "I don't want to hurt my husband",...

I second that: You need to get used to being single. Why not do things totally different now that you're alone? Try out something crazy, do whatever the hell you like. You know why? Because there's...