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Honestly - sounds to me like you've got some issues to work out on your own before you can be in a healthy relationship. Best thing to do at this point is probably break up for a while and give...

I'm not saying his needs don't matter - they do, and he needs to be honest about that... but if she has some demons to work out it's simply not appropriate to turn the revolve the conversation about...

She's overreacting - it would have been pretty unreasonable for you not to let the ex take some clippings... honestly, what's the big deal?

Last thing you want to do is call her out on...

My guess is that she has had some unpleasant past experiences. Maybe a good idea to ask her about it some night when you're cuddling and feeling emotionally intimate. Make sure that when you talk to...

I can understand him being cautious - honestly, if I was him it would bother me that you would even ask to have your name on the deed. You're not married and I'm assuming you would have mentioned if...

I think it is a little soon, but you also don't want to pass up the opportunity when a really great guy walks into your life - rarely do they walk in at the "right" time!

I'd say talk to him about...

You're right Jack - I know it won't ruin our friendship. Perhaps make it a little weird for a bit, but we're both down to earth enough that I think even during the awkward phase we'd be fine.

I want to ask this question in two different contexts. The first is you are romantically/sexually interested in your female best friend. The second is you are not interested in her like that but the...

If she accepts the peck on the cheek this time but doesn't move in for a real kiss, then next time go in for the real thing and see how she reacts.

I'm with the others here - I think she's...

Peck on the cheek gives her the option to accept it and send the signal she's interested, but allows her to stay in her comfort zone if she's not ready to sexualize the relationship. It also gives...

hahaha thanks for the insight, Boisdevie! That MUST be the problem....

I want to... and I will. The part that really pisses me off - and this is why I decided I was done with her friendship - is that I had made my mind up that I was going to talk to him about it. Even...

Not sure exactly why ... I haven't asked him, since I don't think it's my place to be talking to him about her - I promised myself I wouldn't get messed up in their business because I know I have my...

You should end the next date with a peck on the cheek.

None of the things you listed as things that make you think she is losing interest sound like she is losing interest to me.. just becoming more comfortable around you.

When I like a guy I dress...

You should definitely talk to her about it.

Political correctness aside - if you're not Muslim, it's not worth pursuing. That's probably why, even if she likes you, she's friendzoning you. Her family will never accept the relationship. It's...

I think you need to ask her to please try to understand how hard it is for you to do that stuff. It's a little unfair for her to expect you to respect her desire to remain celibate, but at the same...

Agghh it really pisses me off because I can't believe for one second that he doesn't feel the chemistry I do. It's too real and too natural to be one-sided.

Lots of different reasons...

Sometimes they get scared - when things start to get serious, even if that's what they wanted, a lot of times guys begin to swing between feeling suffocated and...

From the initial post, I totally understood where he was coming from and why he was ignoring you - he felt rejected by you. Clearly you were never just a friend to him - whether he liked you the...

Could be a phase, could be the person you're becoming - doesn't really matter. Just chase what it is you want when you want it and don't worry about what might change in the future. Certainly, don't...

WOW - I think the other people posting in here are being jerks.

I think you're in an extremely difficult position and I wish I could give you a good answer. With most things in a relationship a...

Yes - I do always laugh at his jokes, Wakeup... and he always laughs at mine. But it's not flirting, it's because we geniunely find each other ****ing hilarious!

Anyways - new addition to the...

" I'm sure you act flirty and teehee when you're around the guy you're crushing on though. " ... no, I don't. That's the problem - I can't.. I feel like a tool. My form of flirting is touching a guy...