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  1. I've had some long breaks and short breaks. I...

    I've had some long breaks and short breaks. I met my now husband when I was only two months separated from my ex husband. I wasn't looking for a relationship, but I also wasn't about to let a...
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    If the two of you are constantly fighting, it...

    If the two of you are constantly fighting, it stands to reason that he feels insecure in the relationship. Frequent fighting is a very big sign of incompatibility. Also, when the two of you...
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    That's because she has zero interest in dating...

    That's because she has zero interest in dating you.
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    Yup. We renovated a bathroom while I was...

    Yup. We renovated a bathroom while I was pregnant. Had to use the toilets in the park for a day. I remember laying on the grass outside trying to control my heaves after 'public toilet smell'. ...
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    What are defacto laws in your country? If...

    What are defacto laws in your country? If defacto partners don't have the same rights as legally married people, you may be able to add this to your discussion
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    Given that you were just FWB, then yes, you were...

    Given that you were just FWB, then yes, you were out of line. But don't let yourself lose sleep over it.
  7. I could never have a relationship which involved...

    I could never have a relationship which involved always putting my partner's needs above my own. Instead, I think that a healthy relationship is about balance. Sometimes my needs get prioritised...
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    So why would you send gifts to someone who you...

    So why would you send gifts to someone who you don't want in your life? I would have thought you'd have been happy that not wanting each other in your lives was a mutual thing
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    She sees you as a sperm donor

    She sees you as a sperm donor
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    Whoah - go you! There are guys much older than...

    Whoah - go you! There are guys much older than you who can't ask a girl out and get accepted.

    First I want to reassure you that this is pretty normal for your age. I remember my daughter's...
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    I think those are the basic criteria. You've...

    I think those are the basic criteria. You've also got to be able to engage with her at a level where you really 'click'
  12. Mostly likely because she's selfish.

    Mostly likely because she's selfish.
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    That poster was spamming many posts with...

    That poster was spamming many posts with nonsensical comments

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    What about her husband? Where does he fit in this? Oh - perhaps they want you for a 3 way!
  14. Have you ever considered that you're getting...

    Have you ever considered that you're getting defensive because you feel unfairly judged by her? No matter how compassionate you are or how open you are, it will not make her less needy or more...
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    The only way she could be more obvious would be...

    The only way she could be more obvious would be to hit you over the head with a sledgehammer.
  16. With this more information, I think it's probably...

    With this more information, I think it's probably not about your kids at all. I know it's hard to understand why some people do the things they do - but truth be told, we often will never know...
  17. Whether or not ending things because of the kids...

    Whether or not ending things because of the kids makes sense depend on the history.

    If I was dating a man and my child did not like his child, I'd look at why the problem was happening. If the...
  18. Here's the previous post...

    Here's the previous post https://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/96449-save-relationship-late.html?highlight=

    She's like this because she's dysfunctional. I think that her wanting to end...
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    You can't break someone else's wall. Only they...

    You can't break someone else's wall. Only they can do it - and it will only happen if they truly want to change.

    The only thing you can do at present is decide whether or not you can accept him...
  20. I would only date someone who was in my same...

    I would only date someone who was in my same city. If it was more than a forty five minute drive, I'd want to be able to stay the night.
  21. She's not leading you on. So it doesn't make...

    She's not leading you on. So it doesn't make sense that you're scared of this with her. If she were leading you on, she'd be saying all kinds of things to make you think there's a future. ...
  22. Which says an awful lot of bad stuff about the...

    Which says an awful lot of bad stuff about the women who don't respect good guys.
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    He doesn't care at the moment. But given his...

    He doesn't care at the moment. But given his history, he will care again in a week or two.
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    Anything which you don't want your partner to...

    Anything which you don't want your partner to know about.

    If you're keeping certain aspects of a relationship with a 3rd person secret, it would be because you shouldn't be doing it.
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    so why ask the question? Just because one guy...

    so why ask the question? Just because one guy has a particular attitude, it doesn't mean the next guy will feel the same way.
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