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You feel butterflies. That's good that you are getting infatuated with another guy. You are moving on from your previous relationship.

But since you have just come out of an abusive relationship,...

Well Homieg, I think you have done the right thing. Move on.

Choose carefully next time round and good luck!

OK the guy is on antidepressants. These drugs are not always problem free. One of the side effects is being impotent. If he is still on these drugs $1,000,000 would still not help.

Just a...

Vickib This is not something to take personally. He has the problem not you. Don't let his problem, whatever it may be affect your self esteem and self confidence.

When a bloke really loves you,...

Hi tanragagirl. You are young. Give yourself some time and your life can be just great.

Whatever you do don't rush. It is better to wait a few years and look after yourself, and then when you have...

There is somebody out there that can click with you and who will make you feel happy and fulfilled. This bloke does not seem to be the one.

For a relationship to work well, we need to be in tune...

My first thought was that you are better off leaving your new bf. He could have got worse with time.

And you are better off without your first one as well.

Be careful picking the next one. And...

Both are right. For different men and different situations.

I'm an older man, but I'm not looking for a new relationship. However if I was, I would be different than I was when I was young. Then I...

Marriage counseling is NOT for abusive manipulative relationships. They are meant for honest couples who love each other. Your husband needs to be treated for whatever ails him. When or if that can...

Hi lovesaidno, the problem with forums is that some people write things and express themselves in ways that they would never do face-to-face. But the hurt from those words can be as stinging.
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Well you are both mature. That helps.

However you have both got trust issues. That's baggage.

But if you are both honest, take it slow, and give each other time to get to know each other well...

From what you have written here, I don't think you are jealous.I think jealousy is a problem when there is no reason to be jealous. If he keeps chatting up women, and being alone with emotional women...

Interesting. Two women disagree with me quite strongly. :)

This is an "Ask a Male" section. The purpose is for women to ask men what they think and from the varied answers given, get a better...

Hi Basilandthyme, in by experience housewives work. They have an incredibly important job and career. The fact that there is no salary coming in does not change the fact that they do very important...

Sad for you. Good though that he was honest, but he should have been honest with himself earlier and not led you on.

Hope you can forget him quickly.

Homieg, I would suggest leave this guy and think through what you want in a relationship with a man. If you want a relationship with some meaning, then next time avoid having sex until he shows...

Men usually do not do that. That's definitely not casual.

He has the hots for you.

Hi. I tend to agree with Nevio

He said "When?" and you replied, "I don't know." So he might be confused.

When you know when, give him a call and ask him.

I think you are right in saying the ball is in his court now. It is difficult and painful to break a relationship.

If you give him space to think, maybe he will show you which way to go.

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Dear Fearoflove. I think your name says it all. If you are looking for excuses not to love, then there are 1,001 or more that can easily be found. But why try so hard. Just avoid men and problem...

Hi again Homieg. From what you have said here, I would leave this guy and let him go. While you are focused on one guy who may be a waste of time (and I think that's the case here) you risk missing a...

I think you should carefully reconsider your relationships and get a clear idea of what you want in a relationship. Both your relationships; with your boyfriend and with your friend do not sound...

Jennifer, you are definitely not over sensitive. This is not a joke. It is disrespectful.

He is not the kind of person to have a serious relationship with. He will get worse and very likely...

No fearoflove, those are not nice guys. If they want something or are manipulative, stay away from them. The real nice guys are reliable.

Psychopaths can be the most charming people you can meet,...