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I wasn't going to comment, because I don't really have any good advice to provide. But since I don't entirely agree with the previous post, I have to say this much:
It is easy to underestimate the...

Okay, this is going to sound like a very highschool type problem, but let it be noted that I am actually 24 years old and not that inexperienced. However, I have been in a relationship for three...

The gap was a few months short of a year.. We started out dating casually, both aware that neither of us was interested in a serious relationship at the moment. But I think we fell in love and were a...

That's very true, thank you. And I do know that at a conscious level, but still these paranoid irking feelings creep in.. The best I can explain it is that this has to be some more deep rooted...

Okay, this is such an embarrassing problem, but it's totally crippling my self-esteem AND potentially ruining my relationship.

I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, things are good, we love...

Option two might only work as a sort of blackmail tactic, to show his mother that you guys are serious about each other and that she should be more reasonable. Of course the reality is, that since...

I think sex is an important part of two people growing close. It doesn't have to be from the start, but it's just something about sharing that close space with the other person, forgetting your...

Gosh.. you must of course realise that no one can tell you what to do, that decision must come from you. But we can help you analyse the situation a bit..
The way I see it, there is no resolve for...

I'm a woman, have a bachelor's degree, getting my master's and probably also plan on a PhD. Education is important to me, it does change the way you think. Also, like someone mentioned, I live in a...

Hmm. That's very true and all good points. I don't even believe in there being just "the ONE" for anyone, I shouldn't have used that expression. Mostly just.. compatibility. Like, I know I'm capable...

LOL. I have never found this to be an issue. Girls watch porn too. I would think my bf was weird if he didn't. We've even watched porn together. And we're perfectly happy with our sex life! It's true...

So, I pose before you and interesting question. Sorry if it's a long read, but I promise it's quite quite intriguing!!

From first hand experience, it seems to me that most men and some women have...

Yep, that's always a good sign, when you click immediately and find mutual interests and things to talk about.. love it when that happens!!

I think a date can change a girl's mind, but yes, usually for the connection made not for how impressive the setting was. However, I disagree that the first date should be a candlelit conversation....

^I'm not. The guy I was referring to was a fling at best, a jerk also. My current boyfriend is very sweet, just not expressive about his feelings.. which is another type of problem of course. : P

Ugh, I'm in the exact same position as you are. Well, I'm not, because I haven't had the guts to ask him. But sure enough, 8 months, I love him and it would be nice if he loved me too. But he hasn't...

Yes.
No, but really, you shouldn't stay with someone who doesn't bother to call back and see if you're okay. Whatever the situation. I've made this mistake myself. Been so infatuated with someone...

Boo hoo, slip of the tongue : P

For me, I find it is very, very subjective. I've never actually kissed anyone I would define as a "bad kisser", just some are better than others. And interestingly enough (or not really), my top two...

You're right, that's not normal. And frankly, you shouldn't have to deal with it. But I do understand how difficult it is knowing that there's nothing you can do for a person you care about. So.. I...

Maybe she was confused as well. She was trying to read your signals, which is why she was flirty one minute and cold the next. Or that's how I see it anyway. Give her a call, definitely, even if just...

I wouldn't act too paranoid, it'll just put ideas in his head. First: trust (unless you have good reason not to). It's quite normal that old friends would want to get together and catch up if they...

Oof, that's quite a pickle indeed. First off, did the counselling help? Did your psychologist suggest anything that you felt was worth considering?
But basically, I think you've handled the...

I'd dump him for the atrocious spelling. Other than that, he didn't really do anything wrong, looked like harmless flirting (and quite modest at that) with a girl who seemed much more interested in...

Funny. That's exactly what I say when I meet a Christian.