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Thing is, even if we think we've got it all sorted out so it fits in nicely, life can still throw a curve ball at us.

My hubby had a deadline for kids. He was such a great guy that I decided...

I voted to persue your career and dump your boyfriend. The reason I voted for this because having children isn't even mentioned as a priority on your list of options. Your options are all about...

So if he didn't give his blessing to a LDR...and he disclosed that he wanted children 'soon'. In all honesty, I believe you would have been well aware of the sacrifices he was making for you.
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Quick question: if you decide to persue your career - and end things with this guy - would you accept the risk of age related infertility?

If you can't have kids, would you look back with...

Of course you can't ask him to continue waiting. Have you heard nothing he's said? He's waited long enough and isn't prepared to put himself on the back burner any longer. It's time to either...

I think he's probably been reasonably happy to put his life on hold for this amount of time. But he's had enough of waiting around for your career and now needs to have a turn at having his goals...

I don't see any of this as 'sacrifice' on your part....this is simply part of any relationship. You wouldn't have had to put your life on hold to do any of this for him.

No, it's not blackmail. He's just tired of forgoing things which are important to him while you get your own needs met.

While you are afraid he will raise this issue in the future, he's...

I don't see your guy as 'controlling'. Instead, I see a guy who's made a lot of sacrifices and who needs to start seeing those sacrifices being paid back.

A relationship is about 'give and...