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DO NOT CHEAT!!!! It is worst thing you can do to a significant other and can have emotional ramifications for years to come. In addition, instead of being looked upon as a trustworthy and stand up...

Yeah it was me! They say that absence will lessen and extinguish non-genuine feelings and enhance over time those that are true love. I fall into the latter half.

No, I screwed up and broke her heart into a million pieces.

I know many have these ideas that if it did not happen then they were not the correct one for you.

I think we tell ourselves this because it's easier to deal with emotionally then accepting that...

In my opinion, and in my experience, the cliche statement "getting over someone" really depends on the nature of the relationship.

If for instance, you were both deeply in love and for whatever...

I'm not betting on it either! Will she regret her decision though, when she rejected the man she was in love with and wanted to marry come back and take all the blame and basically propose, and then...

I agree, but there are two problems with that!
- First she works right next door, so I have to see this almost every other day! So I'm not sticking my nose in her business, her business is front and...

Yeah I agree. My female therapist told me from a psychological standpoint, that often times after a serious relationship, the female will frequently quarantine any feelings for someone they truly...

Very good point. No need to get deep as she knows how I feel about her since I laid it on the line six month ago. I just saw her yesterday parked out in front of where I work and her married lover...

Fear, intimidation, sadness, regret- if she has those, then indifference would not be possible. I however, I see her reactions to me frequently, and they are consistently full of emotional body...

When I broke up with my ex, it took me over a year to realize I made a terrible mistake. When she was trying to get me back she tried too forcefully and actually pushed me away further. When she...

That's what I'm doing. I've a few dates lined up and even though I really am not in the mood to date, I'm dragging myself kicking and screaming into it because I think I need to. She now know's how I...

Did exactly that last November in the middle of trying to get her back. I was tearing up and and I spilled my guts in front of her. Her body language alternated between smiling and looking down and...

I never had a relationship so serious and emotionally intense as this one. Basically, when I realized that I was in love with her and she was with me, I panicked. She knew something was wrong. I got...

As a guy who actually tried to get my ex back and failed, I'm sure it might apply the reverse. The best thing for you to do is NO CONTACT rule. The more you push the more he will slip from your...

I see your point. But maybe I did not explain good. The coffee bar is a community one for the entire business complex. It is a huge place and I used to go there all the time. She knows I might go...

I'm not stalking her, I run into her frequently because we work right next door! I was trying to rekindle a relationship because I love her and her friend told me that I had a shot for whatever...

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My ex and I were very much in love, and I screwed up things and now it has been over for two years. She is 29, European, shy, quiet, very loving, uncertain of herself, below...

My ex and I were very much in love, and I screwed up things and now it has been over for two years. She is 29, European, shy, quiet, very loving, uncertain of herself, below average self-esteem and...

I agree with all you say except the part about not knowing what she wants. Trust me I know her extremely well and her friends told me that she is claiming to be in love with this guy and wanting to...

I'm just trying to figure this whole mess out!

My ex and I were madly in love and I screwed up massively destroying the whole thing! I broke her heart terribly for reasons too great in length to get into. Lets just say I got cold feet and ran...

Having been involved with a wonderful woman for a year and both of us being madly in love and talking about marriage. Then I got cold feet, ran off, and ignored her for a year as she tried to get me...

Thanks for the reply and your honesty. It is true that I want her back, and nothing in the world would make me happier than if this new guy screws up and then I know I am in. So in that sense I do...

OK here it goes!
BACKGROUND: I broke off the relationship two years ago basically because we were mutually in love with each other and I got scared and wanted to run for the hills! Well I broke her...