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is it just me, or have other girls encountered oddness like this from guys who work in the restaurant business? back when i was single, i was talking to a guy for a few weeks. he happened to be a...

it seems pretty obvious that she likes you...or maybe it's the fact that you haven't given in to her flirtations that makes you so appealing to her. either way, she is in a relationship and is...

what is it with guys becoming so intimidated by other men? who gives a rats ass if her guy friends are having some kind of sexual fantasy about her. your issue should be with them, not her. she...

right, ask your BF what the deal is. no reason to get crazy before you talk to the guy.

yeah, this guy sounds pretty weird. i would do what others have suggested...just ask him straight out if he was serious about wanting to go out sometime. get it out in the open so that he can't...

very tricky, as girls are. even i am a bit confused. there are a bunch of different possibilities that came up in my mind...(1) maybe she likes the compliments, but doesn't feel comfortable...

from your original post and subsequent posts my gut feeling is that you two are not compatible. different people need different things. you enjoy spending time with your partner and sharing your...

he enjoys it when he plays well. we play golf pretty regularly and i would say this past weekend was probably the worst he has behaved since i've met him. he really was playing horribly this...

thanks vincenzo! amazing post with very useful information. i'm assuming his behavior on the golf course was due to fear and embarrassment of playing shitty the whole time. we did have a couple...

haha, good suggestion! maybe i can be sexy with him beforehand and flirtingly say that if he doesn't have a temper tantrum he'll be rewarded afterwards. that just might help him a bit, thanks!
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i don't want to give the impression that he is some kind of spoiled little brat, because he isn't. he is a very giving person, never expects anything from anyone, is always willing to lend a helping...

my bf and i will have been together for about a year. he's wonderful. he's loving, passionate, affectionate, and we just can't get enough of each other. we have been inseparable for the past year,...

it sounds to me like this girl is extremely confused. i agree with angellic for the most part. it sounds like most of her behavior is for attention. but some of it could just be out of pure habit....

sounds like a hint to me. hurry up and send her a message already. she's definitely interested...

she obviously enjoys talking with you on this forum. and i have a feeling her suggesting the event was her way in sort of sharing something with you...something that you guys could potentially use...

you might be right grated wasabi. it sounds like you have a bit more experience than i do in regards to meeting someone online. i can only speak as a girl and what she might be thinking. i got an...

no. don't ask her if you did something wrong. do not mention or even hint at anything negative. like grated wasabi said, it will only put her in a negative mind set. and it makes you sound...

maybe she is involved with someone else?

That to me would have involved a complete breach of trust. It would become more of a trust issue than anything else. The fact that the person didn't feel comfortable telling their partner about...

i wouldn't say i was jumping into it. i met the guy while i was out with my sister and we hit it off. it sorta just happened. i mean, i'm not looking for a serious relationship or anything. but i...

female - straight - no

someone who is going through that drastic of a transformation, physically and mentally, would = too much baggage for me. i have enough of my own problems...my goal is to...

please, please, please don't send that message to her. the first line makes me wince. you start off the whole message sounding really insecure. why are you asking her if it's ok for you to send...

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ummmm...sounds like you both have some major insecurity issues. and you are giving her the upper-hand in every situation. she is being verbally abusive and seems to have no regard for how what she...

i second what Shelly said. i'd demand some kind of explanation and then tell the guy to F off.