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I'm sorry here.... But I really take offense to that. It's not an easy thing to come on here and reveal such personal things about a relationship... That's pathetic that you think Im lying (or even...

Hey, thanks for the posts.... I was going to take most of your advice and talk to her about it in a couple weeks. I didn't get a chance to. She asked me to take her virginity last night (I never...

You guys might have skipped some of my posts. I said I WILL talk to her before hand (as in at least 4-5 days), I was just questioning some more ppl to get some more views. If she says no, that's...

We could talk about sex today if I thought it was the right thing to do. It's not that we CANT its just that I'm not totally sure it's the right thing to do before it actually happens. However, from...

First, thanks for stating that you lost it after a month. There are a lot of haters who think I'm some sort of jerk for trying sex with her after a month.

It's nice to have a girl's opinion, and...

I'll know if she's ready or not, that's not my question.........

Thx for the advice. Good as usual! If anyone has anything else, keep it coming.

Hmmmm.. 1. Im a man (dont take offense ladies). 2. I'm not really trying to be persistent, like I said it seems like the opportune time... It isn't just any given Saturday night.

OK, so is talking to her about it 4 days in advance good? I'd say something like, "What do you think about having sex on the trip. I thought I should ask you before that night."

I'm not...

I'm thinking a lot like you are on this one at the moment. And I didn't mention that, when she was deciding on whether to go on this trip with me (she took like 4 days to decide) I actually asked her...

In a way I have talked with her about it already. I just haven't like planned a night for it, which I really don't want to do but I might iif you guys (actually, girls in particular) think it is the...

Hey, you might have seen my other post but I was really happy with the advice on that situation so I'm back for more.

As a background, we've been going out for about a month at this point (she's...

Ya, I guess I just have to not f*** it up now. Im glad I asked though instead of just waiting to see. Not to mention, she seemed to feel more comfortable when were intimate that night. All for the...

Good thing she's nothing like that....

Is there is a "No thanks" button?

Thanks for all the advice. I talked with her last night. And, she said she's interested in having sex. She also said she's a virgin, which explains her shy nature. That's ok with me, probably better....

Ok, thanks for you're opinion on the situation Kayla. I am totally willing to give up some things, she loves high-heals, I hate them; she likes to eat Korean, no thanks for me... But sex, sex is a...

OK, i won't do it then. But do you think it's too early to ask by the end of this week (which would be our third week, but we see each other almost daily)? And how should I ask? I'm sorry, sex...

Ok, but how should I go about asking her? When?

Hello and thanks for the comments in advance,

Girl's Background: I'm American and I've been dating this South Korean (Christian, very smart, pretty, and caring - I guess almost perfect) girl for...