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So at this point im just trying to evaluate my current relationship with my finacee of 3 1/2 years. I've had some doubts about getting married. Does everyone? I've heard some people always do - but...

Why may I ask did things end in the first place? You were not treating eachother well ?

Any other inputs?

Thats uplifting.. thanks... jackass

I will tell you right now that if you met a girl and both of you were interested in eachother, that your past would not matter one bit.

Well no sh*t. I feel horrible. And im not considering a whole bunch of other men here - i just dont know if my ex contacting me is a confirmation of my doubts..

That is true - i do think i need to figure out both before i make any huge decisions. I did have doubts before i heard from my ex. I dont even know if me and my ex would work out - and if we didnt...

Tough is right. I think everything happens for a reason. If anything - maybe this did happen to make me realize this. I think i've been ignoring my instincts that were there in the first place that...

Thanks for your reply - are you referring to risking what i have now for my ex?

As for the doubts .. if i did want to marry my fiancee, would i even be having doubts?

I agree, I think it does sound like she did have feelings for this other guy and maybe was just trying to figure out things with him before she could make a commitment to you. Perhaps she could have...

Either wait until tomorrow - or later today. Maybe ask her out on another date in the next few days as a start over?

I am currently in a 3 1/2 year relationship. we're engaged. An Ex came back and now I think im in love with both.

4ish years ago, it was summer - i started to date my best friends brother....

Thank you all for replying -

I will try to work things out and maybe try to get him to work on small things .. baby steps..
I hope things will get better once he gets a job that he really likes...

Definatley. not for all, for me, but a few i still talk to as friends and a couple wanting to get back together. One cheated on me while i was away for the weekend.. with my friend. They stayed...

Hi - im new to this site and well here goes nothing ( it makes me laugh how many times im sure someones started like that )

So - ive been going out with my finace for around 4 years. when we were...

Hi
Katie_melender

I am definitely no expert, but as a someone on the sideline it sounds like hes not appreciating you very much or putting in his fair share.
Have you talked to him about these...