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busted. I know i should not meet him but then i would never know and im too curious. Of course i realize that he wont say what i want to hear and it will be painful but i have to face this fear. I...

I am apprehensive about meeting him i still have feelings for him and cannot help but hope that it means we will get back together and i know that if this doesnt happen and he does just want to talk...

I guess best thing to do is for me to be clear with him and that way no one will be left guessing or disappointed when the meeting doesnt go as hoped?

i asked him this, not so bluntly, but he declined. Was it a lie?
id like to have sex with him again but don't want to be the one to bring it up.

I probably will not meet him. Just wanted to understand what he meant in the language of men lol

A man i had been seeing for a while contacted me yesterday after being split up for 2months and asked me to forgive him for the way he had acted and if we could meet and talk. the conversation felt...

I like typical or chubby like a man that i can hold on to :)

Sounds like he came back to you because things either ended or weren't going well with his lover so he crawled back with his tail between his legs. seeing you accepted him back even welcomed him he...

maybe you are maybe not, its not the point. All i want to know is how do i move on from this and make peace with my errors.

Hostility above tolerance, not a most mature approach. Live and let live, we all have different beliefs.
what you were discussing was not even the topic of my post.

See i think that he having an affair with me doesnt mean he doesn't love his wife, clearly he does otherwise he wouldn't be with her. He had sex with me. its 2 different things.

I have not destroyed anything, it ended and he went back to his wife acting like nothing has ever happened. Had it come out though, it would be He destroying His marriage not me.
Most things in life...

Michelle jumping into conclusions here at no time did i want him to leave his wife for me, that is not the kind of lies i meant. It was more things he would say one day then completely contradict...

I get you, was in a very similar situation. The man i was seeing also became distant short after telling me he loved me and me having reciprocated. Now in retrospective i recognize that this time,...

You are right his presence only brings negative feelings to my life. I don't mind my job but most days im totally disinclined to go to work because i know ill have to contend with him. Would be so...

Thanks thats really kind. I hope you are right, i would have thought that 2 months later i would be over it and it would be a distant memory but it isnt so. I keep being tormented by what i should...

As i said what you are discussing was not the topic of my post. However i respect your opinions we are all entitled to our own beliefs, i could go in depth about what i believe and why but in this...

Sorry i didn't express myself clearly its not the fact that i had the affair i am regretting. Its the fact i didn't end it on several occasions i knew he was lying and instead i chose to believe the...

thanks Millie i know logically you are right but i find it really difficult to and i guess that having to see him doesn't help. every time i see him i want to tear him to shreds but he did what he...

Thanks tried that i said to self that next time i will do what i know its right but its not helping, i keep revisiting in my mind all the occasions i should have acted differently and didn't and its...

Hi guys i wondered if you could give me any insights. I went through a bad break up of an affair 2 months ago and thought i would be over it by now but it still hurts as if it was yesterday. I have...

So this is a subject that has been on my mind for some time now and I thought Id post it to see what your opinions are.
Is monogamy natural to humans or is it a product of our social history?
For...

I definitely dont think there is anything wrong with it. I guess some past preconceptions remain and we will be judged, but a thing to remember is that it will be other girls judging us who secretly...

It is hard to accept that a good thing has ended. Clearly, you do not want it to end and it is understandable, however the things have now progressed to a level where you have do make a decision. The...

Thanks also insightful, you are right one should only ever listen to actions as they speak louder than any words ever could. Thanks for saying ij wasnt me at the start i was quite troubled that it...