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Generally, the more you spy on someone the more covert they become about hiding things and the more resentful they become of your behavior. Your girlfriend is acting this way because she resents you...

In my experience, girl/guy best friend relationships can become complicated when one of them starts dating or gets married. If the guy best friend started out the relationship while single, he will...

There is plenty of trust between us, we just don't communicate well. I think you are assuming I snoop through his stuff all the time, we share a computer and his accounts are always logged in. I...

All I can say is don't get emotionally invested. It's clear that something happened in her past and she's carrying that baggage with her today. It appears that she has no idea what she really...

He would hate it if he knew, but he doesn't have a clue. I know he's looked through my stuff from time to time, I could care less, I've got nothing to hide.

I know I'll be the only one with this suggestion, but I'll say it anyway. Just continue to keep tabs on him, but without hard core spying on the guy. Maybe every few weeks go through and see if...

Well he is lying to me, but not about anything huge, just small and kind of strange things to be lying about.

I don't know, it doesn't appear that he is lying to me, but he is definitely lying to his friends and family. All the things about us possibly purchasing the studio are "I'm doing this, and this,...

I don't see how this can be so cut and dry, I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt - he is in constant low-grade pain, and seems to be depressed. The economy is total shit, it's going take...

I have had this conversation with him plenty of times, and he does not engage. He says he is sorry, and then changes for about a week and then goes back to being his normal self.

Quick Background: My husband and I have been married for 6 1/2 years, we were both active duty Marines when we met and jumped into our marriage after 7 months of dating, and knowing each other for 1...

I love engineers, you guys analyze everything to a fault. It seems after reading your post that you are taking the correct steps to help you get over your obsession.

However, the point of...

He sounds very depressed to me.

Yes, it would change my opinion greatly. At least then you would have the next step to an actual relationship and would know that you weren't spending all this time on a fraud. Personally, I just...

Talk to the lawyer, and talk to the people who you confessed about on the tape, and then talk to your boss about this issue. You might be able to resign before he can talk to your boss and then at...

My advice is from personal experience, it's not like I'm criticizing your situation for fun. I talked to the guy I met on the phone, I talked to his friends on the phone, talked to him almost every...

7 hours is a long distance to maintain a relationship I guess, but it is not a long distance to meet someone. I go to LA once every other month, it's 6 1/2 - 8 hr drive depending on traffic. I book...

I wasn't going to go there, but I was thinking the same thing. She has to live in bum-**** middle of nowhere. 7 hours is long distance? My husband and I lived further than that for 2 1/2 years...

Speaking from personal experience, men that talk to younger women online for large quantities of time do it because there is something significantly amiss with them socially or emotionally. Younger...

LOL, I love how Cheekxs counters the offensive post by being even more racist and offensive. Classy. ;)

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I'm not missing the point, he shows her the text messages or she leaves. It is possible that he will want to make things right if she puts her foot down. He hasn't really been reprimanded for his...

If he wants to stay in the relationship he'll show her the texts. Obviously she really likes her boyfriend, so this will help determine whether she should stay or not.

Personally, I'd say show me your text messages or I'm out the door.

I don't get to travel very much anymore, but your spirit and spontaneity seem very similar to my own. I married young, and I was lucky enough to find a partner willing to put up with my selfish...