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    Its not your fault so you need to stop thinking...

    Its not your fault so you need to stop thinking about what happened. Just remind yourself that he has gone through a lot before and since you already have an idea of how he is feeling right now, just...
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    There really is nothing to gain by listening to...

    There really is nothing to gain by listening to what he has to say. You don't get closure from liars and deceitful people like him. Closure through dialogue is not for every relationship. Since you...
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    Im sorry that it has come to this. I assumed both...

    Im sorry that it has come to this. I assumed both of you sends messages to each other before you unfriended him. That was my basis. If that is the case, then you seek proper closure with him. Don't...
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    You shouldn't see him again as i don't see the...

    You shouldn't see him again as i don't see the need for closure. He even bailed on you when you found out about his relationships. Its quite obvious that the guy is problematic since he even broke up...
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    Seems like the relationship has direction. Maybe...

    Seems like the relationship has direction. Maybe its time you find out if he wants to be exclusive
  6. But you already told her you'll be there for her...

    But you already told her you'll be there for her as a friend. people always have issues, some of them are just easy to fix or deal with while others are more difficult. "still care for her" is quite...
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    Move near the border of mexico. Let it go for...

    Move near the border of mexico. Let it go for now. If you did see a reaction then it is better to assume that he heard it but wasn't ready to react to it. Next time and i mean give it enough time,...
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    And then you tested after she got it? what did...

    And then you tested after she got it? what did the results show? did you have HPV after she did?
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    Now you have an idea of him being scared and...

    Now you have an idea of him being scared and hurt. Putting yourself in his shoe lets you see his perspective. He's not even trying to deliberately hurt you, so you could imagine what it would have...
  10. I agree, and you have to remember, this is not...

    I agree, and you have to remember, this is not some church camp either, its clubbing, partying and nightlife. you really think nothing will happen? yes she'll think you're cool... you'd think she's...
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    Seems like you wanted things to progress but did...

    Seems like you wanted things to progress but did the opposite lol, im not into popular opinion so you'll always find my advice tailored to what you want to happen. of course, if i do find red flags,...
  12. I think it is best to move on. That is just plain...

    I think it is best to move on. That is just plain abusive. He is just looking for someone to he could use
  13. Relationships like these always feels incredible...

    Relationships like these always feels incredible especially when both parties are not happy with their current partners, then it fizzles out to nothing. This is an very difficult situation for you...
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    Another way might be to tell her that you have...

    Another way might be to tell her that you have feelings for her, and it is exactly for that reason why you'd readily respect her and patiently wait for her to be ready. That way, you're expressing...
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    Why would you run away?

    Why would you run away?
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    Actually, it's your perfect person that said you...

    Actually, it's your perfect person that said you should talk to the baby's mom, i don't really care how you view women you impregnate or the child she carries. Yes you didn't surprise her, and you've...
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    If he will not let go of his ex and move forward...

    If he will not let go of his ex and move forward with you, then he'll never get over his ex. that is not how relationships work. what he is doing is not being friends. he's like someone being...
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    I think you're the one beating around the bush...

    I think you're the one beating around the bush and made yourself unavailable for no apparent reason. Just straight up ask him out again. Nothing wrong with that, who knows, it might lead to someting...
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    those posts are annoying. i just put them on my...

    those posts are annoying. i just put them on my ignore list
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    You could also send the flyers to him just as a...

    You could also send the flyers to him just as a sign of good faith. you'd come out a good sport. just don't expect anything back and let it be.
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    Here is the thing, if i look at your post, it...

    Here is the thing, if i look at your post, it comes out like you made someone pregnant, decided its not for you, moved on to the next without thinking of your responsibilities. And when confronted...
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    I understand him. It would make a lot of people...

    I understand him. It would make a lot of people insecure what happened in your past. There are things that people can say "past is past" unfortunately, not everything can be categorized as such. It...
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    I think the problem is that, you have a baby...

    I think the problem is that, you have a baby coming from another woman, and you don't seemed bothered by it, she wanted you to try to fix things with the mom yet you dismissed it like it was nothing....
  24. First thing you need to know is his life. Don't...

    First thing you need to know is his life. Don't assume that he's always free to send you messages. maybe that first time, he was just free and had a lot of time on his hands. If things work out...
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    Quotes doesn't exactly help. its very......

    Quotes doesn't exactly help. its very... pedestrian? and it sounds impersonal. everybody receives them. in terms of food, its like microwaving something storebought for him instead of making...
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