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Thank you for responding. He said that he had been burned before and doesn't want to rush into anything but that I shouldn't assume that he doesn't want the same things I do.

He was engaged...

My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years (minus a 5 month break up long ago).

I love him deeply and we are a pretty happy couple. Fights and arguments are incredibly minimal, though...

Thank you Jester. I ended up having a talk with him this weekend and feel at a bit of a crossroad.

I actually for the first time brought up his thoughts on living together. It wasn't prefaced...

Hello. I've posted on here before about different concerns and have gotten some helpful advice.

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, with a 5 month break last summer. We've...

Hello! I had posted about part of this problem months ago and the thread is closed now, because it's been awhile :) I'm kind of consolidating a few problems into one thread so excuse the length.
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My boyfriend and I dated for 6 months late 2015-early 2016. He broke up with me last spring, we were apart for the summer, and he came back to me in late summer, telling me he'd made a mistake and...

I'm not whining. I feel that's a rude statement. I also never said it was getting better. I actually said it was getting worse.

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I also have never said that I feel they...

The next few weeks will certainly tell the tale. As much as I love him, it is a VERY big turn off to see the type of relationship he has formed with these 2 women. I cannot explain it: it is NOT...

Thank you Jester. I needed this today. I had the conversation with him last night. I began by telling him that I felt incredibly frustrated that as a 35 year old woman with a 43 year old boyfriend,...

I told him yesterday that I wanted to have a discussion tomorrow night, which is our week night together. It will the final time that I attempt to communicate about this.

He was very open about...

You're right. Another conversation is in order. I feel like I'm dating all 3 of them sometimes. Whenever I go to his house it's like ok visiting him and his 2 sisters. It's so unbelievably weird.

I agree with you on all of this except the trust part. I still stand by my original thought that He would never do anything sexual with them and I do not believe they would be the type to do anything...

The situation is still odd. I'm trying my best to compromise and be fair. The late night nonsense has been non existent the last couple of weeks, which is good, but I have a feeling it's temporary. ...

Why don't you ask him? You don't know until you have a conversation and ask him what he thinks, or if he has the same feelings. If he doesn't, then there's your answer. It doesn't sound like the 2 of...

I feel like the situation is growing increasingly strange. My plan was to talk to him and possibly even them, and let him know that I Felt their feelings were coming before mine and that I wasn't...

Right. And the screaming is certainly annoying to me; he doesn't hear it when they do it at 2:30 because he's still asleep. It wakes me. And granted, they don't do that every single week but they've...

Thanks. I guess it hadn't really crossed my mind that any of this was potentially purposeful. I guess that would make sense.
I never thought of it as a territorial kind of thing. And you're right, I...

Well I had a chat with him this weekend and I suppose I'm not certain how I should react to his response.
I had texted him last week just asking kindly if we could have a chat about his neighbor's...

Thank you Jester.

Interestingly enough, last night, I went over to his house. I was in a bad mood, just one of those days, and he wasn't feeling well. I didn't think it was a good time to bring...

Thank you SO MUCH for this message. I think you hit the nail on the head. I don't think they're screwing around physically or anything like that when I'm away and I trust that he is faithful to me....

He has told me nothing has ever gone on between them and nothing would. I believe him. I believe it to be more of an ego stroke on his end of things I suppose. And you are correct: I don't mind at...

Hello!

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. We dated previously for about 6, and broke up during last summer.

He's in his mid 40's (I'm in my mid 30's) and lives in a townhouse...

I'll try to condense this :)

My boyfriend is almost 10 years older than I am: he's 43 and I'm 34.

Years ago (around 4 years ago) he was engaged to a woman for about a year and she left him...

thanks for taking the time to reply :) I appreciate your response. He takes it seriously, but it's not something that he would do as a career. He is however, very passionate about it all.

When he...

Hello all.

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months. We were broken up for a bit last year and dated around 6 months prior to that. I'm feeling like an un-supportive girlfriend...