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i will join you soon DH. i will get there!!

Jaden, i think we are on the same boat here. He pushed me away and I knew it's over but I just can't move on. Can't let go.
We once were happy too, loved each other so much and enjoyed each other's...

Vashti, my psych said the same thing. I put up with my x because it was the kind of relationship that i was used to. It was not a good relationship and it was just wrong, but some people just so...

Hm Vashti, I'm intrigued. Cant wait to read your perspective. I know it'll hurt. Probably tough love kind of advice, but sometimes it's what we need to hear.

i guess the unknown scares me. what's out there... and being alone again... it's scary.

He is toxic! He is the one who is f**ked. He felt so low but he was just not man enough to admit it. so he had to bring you down with him. and he wouldnt satisfy until he saw you broken and in tears....

todd, reconciling works both ways. she doesn't seem to make any effort to reconcile. so what's the point? I tried to work things out with my x, but he just gave up. what can I do but to give up too? ...

i guess i'm just so mad that i put up with his ups and downs all those times and he just ended it because he just had enough. i think i said that before. i keep repeating myself. i'm so angry! it's...

mornings are always the hardest. getting up and going to work, seeing happy people laughing. everything feels like a major effort for me.

the problem i realised with us is that we dont like...

good on you toddstar!
i wish i had your strength!!

thanks kyeema.
i'm still trying to deal with this. mornings are always the hardest. i force myself to get up and go to work so i won't be sobbing at home all day. but sometimes i just cant control...

he has some kind of borderline disorder. we both are 30+
My mistake was that I flirted with someone else. I know it was bad but nothing else happened. although he said he has forgiven me, he never...

I'm angry at you for what you put me through but somehow i still love you. and i miss you. i miss talking to you. i miss going for walk with you. i miss YOU. Why cant you see that???

wow.. i'm still struggling with one day with nc. I'm finding it difficult to feel good about myself. that knot in my stomach won't go away.

It's difficult to let go of someone you still love. Heck I know how that feels. I'm still in love with my abusive ex. He is an abuser and I still think the world of him.
I can't advise you...

We have been together for about 2 years, the last few months have been like a rollercoaster. His insecurity made things worse. Yes i made mistake. And he said he had forgiven me. But he kept getting...