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I'd say honesty is the best option. Be honest with him and tell him that you find it hard to be physically attracted to him when he doesn't take care of himself. That should make him do something...

I don't know him and that depends on the person he is, but something similar happened with my boyfriend. I noticed he was getting distant and I told him about it. And it was only when we started...

I was in a LDR for 1 and a half years and it all ended 5 days ago. This was my first relationship ever, the first guy I fell in love with and I'm just so lost. It hurts so much that sometimes I can't...

I'm almost in the same situation. We both decided it was better to call it off and we did it 5 days ago. It was a really sucky Christmas.

But we ended things in a civilized way. Because ours was a...

Typical girl may not be the most correct term to use, because that depends on a lot of things, but he's always saying how he likes how practical and tomboy I am. I don't care much about fashion and...

We usually see each other once a week, at best. I am 22 and he is 21.

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I will reply to your other questions asap. Thanks guys!

Hi, guys. I haven't been around lately, because unfortunately life has been hectic, but I hope I can figure out my time and find a way to spend more time here trying to help people and get some help...

Yes, I know. I do the same thing with boys and I'm not comparing them to him in any way. This is just insecurity, I hope this will change as our relationship becomes stronger and as I mature and gain...

Thank you everyone. I am young, I'm in my early twenties and this is my first relationship. He had a sort of relationship with this other girl and I guess I just feel insecure and threatened because...

I don't know if I'm just being a drama queen about this, but I can't let this feeling of inferiority go and I need to vent. Today I was talking to my boyfriend and we were talking about how society...

It sounds like she has some self-trust issues. And it's just ridiculous that she wants you to be in another realtionship to gain some experience only to get back to her afterward. That's BS and you...

Exactly, I agree with smackie9. The important thing here is that you realize you did nothing other than being kind to him and you helped him. If he didn't reciprocate, that's his own problem, he's...

He's cheating on his girlfriend. Why? Besides being an unconsiderate douche, he's probably bored in his relationship and feels like he needs a challenge. You're that challenge.

But if you know...

I don't know because I don't know him, but some guys (and girls) love to keep adding names to their list of conquests. It sounds like this guy is trying to plant seeds all over the garden and see...

If you feel uncomfortable about having sex with her, but you still want to meet her, than do just that. Call her and ask her if she wants to hang out, to have a drink or something. She's definitely...

Yeah, I agree you're blowing the "love ya" thing out of proportion. It's just another way to say "see ya" and people are so used to it that it comes out of our mouths automatically. The important...

It's weird it even makes sense to her that she does something concerning her own relationship based on what her sister said/wants. But good luck! I hope she will come around and start believing in...

Her sister shouldn't have anything to do with it and if she is letting other people influence her, that's her own problem. I think you did what you have to do - flying to her to reassure her she is...

It looks like she has some trust issues, then. It's only normal that, knowing you started dating while having some other girl in your head, upsets her. She probably thinks you're lying and telling...

He probably didn't tell you the truth in fear of rejection. If you really like him, though, I think you should give it a try, but be cautious and see where this can take you both. Tell him it makes...

Yeah, I think he's not interested, to be honest. If he were, he would have already made an effort to see you. Not to mention the way he's flirting with other girls while asking you out on dates.
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Intellectual masturbation is what I call it as well. Funny you mention it! Of course he gets really mad and denies it because he thinks he's very smart and inteligent. The one thing that pisses me...

I'm guessing you started dating your now ex-girlfriend when you still had some sort of feelings for the person before her. I would understand her getting mad at you if you still had feelings for...

That was some very good advice, thank you!

The thing is that I really want this to work out, because he has some very nice qualities to him, as well. It's just very confusing. A part of me just...

It definitely sounds like this girl isn't worthy of your attention. Like 4 ratties said, I'm not sure why people cheat, but the fact is that they do. I can't even imagine what that must be like, but...