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Thanks very much for this, I do think you have a point about taking up a new hobby or getting more involved here. It's something I've neglected for some time now. I've no intention on leaving before...

I don't think it's necessarily quite that black or white - being with him vs. being happy. Sure at the moment I don't like it here as much as I could, though what is important to me is a timeline in...

I'll definitely be putting a list of cities together. I would like us to pick a city together rather than he picks one alone, so that we have equal buy-in. Ideally I would love at least set a date to...

I did see your response, thanks very much for that. As mentioned previously, it is much more important to me to be with my partner. We just need a plan in place so that I don't lose my sanity!

Well, at the risk of sounding hideously negative, I'm to the point where most Romans annoy the hell the out of me, and it's frustrating how nothing ever works here. On occasion it does work and it's...

If you feel the need to record her conversations, read through her text messages etc, then you clearly don't trust her. I also don't believe her actions have anything at all to do with this condition...

Hi everyone, long story short - I'm American and have been living overseas in Italy for about 7 years. My boyfriend and I (also American) have been talking about leaving as we both don't want to be...

Hi everyone, I'm having some issues with my life right now (to put it generally). I am from the US, 30yrs old, and I've been living overseas for about 7 years. When I first arrived in Europe years...

There is nothing at all that you have to feel guilty for! Taking care of yourself is what you're doing. Betraying you is what he's done every single time he is verbally, emotionally and physically...

I call him Beast, my sexy thang.. he finds a new name for me everyday.. pumkinwhistle, tinypants, flowerpatch.. the list goes on!!

Clara, are you ok if he never says he loves you? If you're fine with never hearing it, because he said he's not sure if he ever will, then that's one thing.

But if we completely put the L-word...

Clara, it kinda sounds like you knew the answer to your question before you asked it and you just needed an reaffirmation from others. If your gut feeling is telling you to go, I would listen to it....

I'm curious to know a few things... why would you want to be with someone who a) cheated on his current girlfriend with you? Who says he wouldn't do the exact same thing to you when he feels you're...

The first thing I want to tell you is, Don't blame yourself for Jessica's death. Her friends were VERY wrong to do that. Life is full of terrible accidents, but if you get caught up in the 'what...

Don't think this is necessarily true, especially if both are enjoying themselves. A girl isn't exactly "giving it up" if she wants it to begin with - makes it sound like she got conned into it, when...

I completely understand the feeling of seeming like you're breaking up over something so silly, but in the long run, it may have been something else or some other situation. I broke up with my Ex,...

Humm . . . whether you totally understand the depths of their friendship or not, you've got a right to feel the way you do. Sometimes our men don't fully get it until the tables have turned. Not...

Tremolo, I think you're lucky you found out what he was like earlier on, ya know?? Who wants to be with someone who isn't mindful that they're in a relationship, and therefore has someone else's...

Have you told him how you felt about her sleeping at his place when she visits? I was just thinking to myself if that happened to me when my boyfriend and I had been together a year and thought,...

Is this a serious post, your girlfriend kicked and punched you? Geesh. She gets quite riled up doesn't she?!

If this is serious, I quite apologize. Doesn't sound a healthy relationship to me.. I...

Don't form false expectations, make her see who you really are right from the get-go and dress however you normally do. You'll see really quickly if your each other's type!

I liked the metro-dude...

CTR, well-said ! Couldn't agree more.

What I can't tell is whether she is anorexic (like she seems to be portrayed here), or if she's just skinnier than you'd hoped for. Either way -- if her bones are poking you, she must be unhealthy,...

You seem to be certain you're not that into her now, and that you won't be in the future. It's easier for both of you, especially Linda, if you're honest. Sure it hurts, but it hurts more to be...

First off, stop letting her support you! She seems to be very important to you, so if you feel bad about her not having the money to do what she needs, don't accept it.

For therapy, even if it's...