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It always baffles me when someone starts a post 'I love my bf/gf a lot, but.....' Actually I don't think you do love him like you say. If you did you would accept him for how he is. It sounds like...

So with the FWB relationship, this was happening each and every time?

I'd find it dodgy personally.

That is why I think he is genuinely remorseful and probably won't do it again. Not that it can be guaranteed but he seems to have learned his lesson. Give it time. You will need to rebuild that trust.

It didn't say that in your original post, about him being scared he will hurt you again through his actions.

He seems quite remorseful. If he genuinely has learnt from this mistake and everything else is ok in the relationship I'd forgive him. Sometimes people do silly things, it's human nature. The...

You seem quite dependent on him. WHY are you missing him so much? Is it because you miss the way he makes you feel? Miss the company? Miss the sex? Or is it because you feel better when he is close...

Trust your gut. If something doesn't feel right it usually isn't.

I think there is something in what Wakeup is saying. Maybe you have never felt this way before because the fantasy is better than real life. She is not obtainable and therefore you can pretty much...

No they don't.

I don't see why a guy would need it if he is satisfied in the relationship. Even if he is turned on visually why not just be single so you can bang as many chicks as you fancy. Just my opinion I know...

I too don't understand why after one year you are so hooked on the idea of moving in together. You and Dave broke up for a reason. I think you have made a mistake. Carl probably dodged a bullet.

I would never have coffee with someone whose first words are 'hey wanna grab coffee sometime'. Wtf? If that is her opening line to everyone on the site then you were probably just one in a very long...

Iaman - HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA. That made me spit my breakfast at the screen.

What a creep. It's clear all he wants is sex and this proves it. Just keep reminding yourself of the type of person he is and try and meet some new people.

My advice? Cut contact with the third party. Taking that out of the picture means not having to fight feelings and can allow you to stay in your marriage wholly. It may seem harsh, but if you value...

Really? I sure missed out. I agree in the sense if he has doubts he should leave but it's his whole attitude which sucks ie There are a few negative things I obsess about as well. First, although...

Decide what he wants? You think that girl is still gonna be waiting for him?

I disagree ^. His porn watching and behaviour is causing you to feel insecure and like you are not enough for him. Why anyone would want to chat with live naked women while in a relationship is...

Just leave it now. Let him make the next move.

WTF? The whole situation is screwed up. That's my thoughts.

Doing something stupid coz it's 'cute' to see someone flustered is stupid alright. This guy obviously cares about you. Appreciate him or leave him so he can be free for a girl that does appreciate...

Yes I recommend you ask her. But for what it's worth I don't really care if my bf texts a few hours late or not. He is lazy also or busy or out of credit on his phone so quite often it's not til...

Like I said to another poster who posted something similar, I think it's time to move on when you have to ask the question 'how do I know when it's time to move on/give up'. You guys get together...

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