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guess you wouldn't have started a thread without having feelings for him : )

well you have to assess how seriously into him you are... basically, a lot of men are like this, they require...

i understood, but you know... those fish who live at the bottom of an ocean use phosphorescent things to attract food...... for example.... which was the reason for asking. and they wouldn't eat the...

there's nothing wrong with not wishing to settle down for rubbish options i hope? and with wishing to exclude negative experiences from my life? you make ditz sound like the opposite of masochist :-D

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they say everyone should be realistic, why can't i? is that obnoxious??

re: going les : i have had lovers in my life, and perfectly corresponding to my demands they were : ) even though...

bingo, this explains it. i just thought it would be easier attracting a handful of at least physically attractive ones and then start selecting. but then i live in london and good-looking people are...

um what i meant was women are less likely to do this kind of thing, friendzoning a guy for example is not taking advantage of his heart.

but OP's friend seems to do something different. he wants...

really? i have never had any idea what's sexy about body hair, esp when they look like furry animals and want women to shave everything. maybe diveristy is a good thing, it makes sure there's...

well, what's wrong with saying i want someone from my kind of league ? i think this is what unattractive ones should be doing as well. re: looks, nothing to complain about, rather the contrary. so...

Well, I just don't want any people pointing at me and saying "poor thing she couldn't get herself anything better which is quite explicable". I wouldn't be able to close my eyes on that, on the fact...

CAM, all i said was i didn't like that one phrase, that "if i attract old men i should be with them", because it can be interpreted as if i had to accept life without pleasure and exist for the...

you never mentioned what function in your life you would ideally like to allocate him

and its always best not to be judgmental about anything and label people as good (or not) based on some...

I don't anymore, as a matter of fact, just came about that way. He kind of saw that in me, so I felt that way, now obvs this is not the case anymore.

Hard to tell.... I live in east london, seems...

Okay so i didn't expect such a long discussion to have taken place by the time I'd check back.....

So, in order of appearance

Re: being myself so many have mentioned. there's a few things...

Really? Even if you work in construction? Have no clue what happens in the working class, never been there, thanks for letting me know

Keep your fervour within limits, Incognito, you're not entitled to telling me what to do. if you think a feminine side means wearing womens underwear and fondness of gay porn, then you're laughable...

well i believe the discussion is turning fruitless. + i said that the romance was top notch not the person. but top notch romance is not possible with bland people thats all



emotional...

I don't think its a matter of objective parameters. Everyone I have liked was tall/thin/pale/blue-eyed/dark-haired and it was because of their personality that i felt attracted.

I can dig a...

yes if she has been supportive and sympathetic, there's nothing wrong with it, we all need human kindness in our lives, best if it comes from friends.

if she's not sexually attracted thats that,...

by top category i meant self-sufficient and in the creative vein, preferably talented. like, julian from the strokes was top notch a few years ago.... or i don't know.... thurston moore in the early...

no, i'm not, they are scared of me, so i'm safe and far far away from their mouldy rotting decomposing 30-year-old bodies. but if you wanted to tell me how to avoid being looked at by every...

so funny to read all the negative replies. its not like you owned her and was entitled to tell her what to do and what not to do.

if you didn't trust her then fine, but why pretend you're better...

surely there are people who don't need to pay ridiculous money to get listed as single and looking but who are somehow good at finding the right person free of charge? besides, in normal life things...

It never hurts to seek the reason within yourself. If someone got chosen over you, there must be a reason.

But isn't it sad even to get an account on one of those? Isn't it admitting you're some kind of a loser? No one I know uses them. Who wants some desperate single labelling themselves as looking?

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I would be grateful for any feedback re: what sort of qualities/appearances/general outlook men in their 20s find attractive and desirable in girls? I've been finding myself attractive to the...