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Well, I'd say because you never actually started talking to her! Stop being sad, start talking to her and see what comes out of it! Otherwise you might never now and ask yourself for the rest of your...

She doesn't love you now and still you stay in this relationship. This must hurt so much! Why are you doing this to yourself? You can never say what the future brings, but you deserve someone who...

... I feel great! Him leaving me was the best thing that could have happened to me no matter how hard it was on me and how many tears I shed over him and our love.

One year ago I'd never have...

Sounds like you're moving on... slowly but steadily... that's good! Moving out will be a good step too I think... I still live in the house where I was with my ex and it's haunting me... but at the...

If you find that reset-switch would you please post it here? *ggg*

You're doing all the right things by not wanting to feel this way, not wanting to love her and picturing your future without...

Well, I think you find the answer in these words you wrote... do you want to be together with someone you feel disgusted about and who you think is selfish? And if you fear losing your dignity and...

You really sound like a nice and caring guy, it's a shame she couldn't see and appreciate that... but trust me, some day when you're ready, you'll meet someone who will appreciate all of you and see...

Yes, but it will get easier and easier... trust me... you won't feel miserable for the rest of your life!

And you're doing great by keeping yourself busy and concentrating on your own life, but...

Hey you,

I'm so sorry to hear what you have to go through...

Don't believe her a word! She is making excuses when she tells you it's all your fault, she's desperately trying to find reasons so...

How are you holding up? I sent you a pm...

Kyeema

Hey, congratulations! Your 41st year starts out pretty good, don't you think? May the rest of the year go on like this! :o)))

Good thing, you finally cut her out of your life... and as much as it hurts now... isn't there a little anger somewhere too? Stick to that then!

You're just getting through it, Headsashed, keep...

And you will... probably not today or this week, but in a while you will be able to move on and find somebody else who really loves and appreciates you... but for now... why not let your emotions win...

Where ever you want to go! Nobody can stop you but yourself!

And if you can't and/or don't want to go anywhere right now then stay in the moment and live through these feelings until they get...

Happy Birthday Toddstar!

I wish you all the best for the coming year - you're a very special person, an old soul, connected to the universe and slowly seeing this connection of all things!...

1. Years in relationship
8 years
2. male or female
female
3. contact or no contact
contact due to financial and organisational reasons
4. how long did you get back with EX and happy for good?...

Hey, I'm 40 too... and 40 is not old it's the new 30 *ggg*... and you wrote: I am very happy to be ME now... what else do you wish for? Isn't that one of the most important things in life? I wish I...

No - not all women are like this, some even go through the same stuff you do because men did this to them... after my ex left me (I can't even say broke up with me because he didn't, he simply didn't...

Hi Headsashed,

when bad things happen, they never happen alone... trust me I know... and 2011 is a tough year for all who want to grow personally, it's the year of change... my ex broke up with me...

You are strong enough! You will get through it! And if this new girl helps you, meet her, but be honest with her about your situation so she can decide for herself and in case it's too much for her...

Tanguerra is right... women don't want these NC games and "won't wait for you"-things by which you think you make us want you more because we fear losing you when you say something like that... but...

Hey you,

you have been writing here since July about your "ex"...

Do you still remember she kissed that other guy from work and that's why she broke up and wanted NC for a week? This is what...

Hi BrownBear,

I am glad you came to the conclusion that you are okay the way you are... because that's the way it is... enjoy yourself and the life you have and some day your love will come around...

You know, most of us would be happy to love their jobs they way you do... I think it's a gift you got there from life. Or would you rather hate your job and have a family instead? You could be in the...

This is beautiful, BrownBear, and I don't think you're broken. You just haven't found the right woman yet. And no matter what your father and grandfather have taught you to believe, now it's up to...