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Hi I'm wondering if he still may have feelings for her since she was the one that left the relationship.

But in all fairness, this happens to a lot of big girls!

I think he is taken too. I'd move on. No need for drama .

How would you stick w/him and not get so attached?

You are his back up plan.. The signs are all there ... Please read your own post .. He is not over his ex.. He does not deserve you.

I think you should come clean, if you really care about him as you said u may be falling in love with him, it's wrong to keep lying to him. Tell him , let him decide, if he feels the same way about...

Just when I think I'm doing well.. I fall again, I truly love you , I'm dying again... I chase you relentlessly in my dreams .. I want to move forward.. I REALLY thought I was... Then this .. I'm...

Then why would you say not so nice things about her on fb?

I still love u , I can't hate u ... I wish to wake up tomorrow and not remember you. I hope you are happy you got what you wanted.

He doesn't listen to you, because he feels that as you're financially dependent on you, you're going to stay around. He feels that he owns you, controls you and doesn't respect you at all.

I...

Errrr... Well you told him you weren't looking for anything more than a friendship???? Am I wrong?

Sorry (this made me laugh) .. No disrespect meant just when visiting the forums it's nice to smile or laugh out loud once in a while... Laughter is the best medicine :)

Thank you backup,michelle&wakeup.. The reply actually hurt more than anything .. Sigh* you all are right... He just stopped loving me or perhaps never did..

I'm functioning.. Gosh work sucks...

Ok this is what he texted back "it's hard to know what to say. I did not know it would be this difficult on us. Part of me is connected to u, and of course I had much happiness with you. I was...

Lol oh wow he I hope that wasn't directed at me...

Thank you Michelle, no reply yet.. Maybe that's a good thing?.. Gonna have a cocktail to soothe my nerves ...

Hi all, he texted me again and I said exactly the above... Just updating..

Hi Chris... What if it wasn't the alcohol she was offended by? What If it was because you didn't perhaps invite her to attend the parties with you?.. Just a thought....

Perhaps cookies perhaps

Thank you basil.. Lol I guess I really needed a good kick in the ass to do that.. Great advice.. The net text I get .. That will be exactly my response :)

Thank you for your input stev123.. Should I put more details? I didn't want to be so long winded.. I just don't understand the actions :(

Ok I'm going to keep this short... I've been with my bf for 6 years.. We have been broken up for a little over a month now.. We had a very good relationship . To be totally honest I was taken by...

I understand the feelings all too well, I don't really think there is anything we can do about the "pain" .. Sure being around friends and loved ones really do help alot to keep you occupied and help...

It's not a matter of punishing you, it's a matter of him doing what's best for him.

What's best for you? If you want marriage, then maybe this isn't the man for you. It hurts, but do you want to...

Michelle- no it was never like that... Although we don't live together he moved to my apt complex to be closer to me since we always spent each nite together... It was the closest to "moving in" he...