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Only if she had something to hide. I look at her cell on rare occasions, she probably looks at mine... it's cool. In that instance I only looked because the cell was going off every other minute and...

I have definitely pulled back. We'll see what happens...

Also interesting... the night she and I passed out at her place (maybe 3 weeks ago now?) I remember her phone blowing up with txt messages. I had the opportunity to see the latest txt and it was the...

She's definitely playing some kind of game. Why and to what end, I do not know. I told her that after 4 months of being just friends, I was tired of waiting and hoped she'd figure out what she wants....

Actually, I think she likes the new guy for physical reasons. Which leads me to believe they won't last long since any relationship based primarily on sex rarely has legs. But I agree she's probably...

Okay, so this girl and I had a casual fling for a brief time but then she had a pregnancy scare and said she wanted to stop having sex until she was on birth control. So she got it but sex suddenly...

Haha no, I don't think so. Yes, Tara is the closest I've come to finding my ideal woman, but I'm confident that someone else would come along down the road. But it would certainly take a long time.

That sums up the problem perfectly. I'm a patient man, and I'm willing to suffer the long-game strategy if the end result is what I'm hoping for. If she needs to be involved with this other guy...

She cheated on him, yes. But she did not cheat on me. We were never exclusive in any way and, as I said, she warned me not to get my hopes up that we'd be an official couple. If she had actually...

Haha yeah there is some irony there. That being said, I can't think of someone more deserving to be cheated on than an abusive heroin addict.


Maybe, but I tend to think it's more casual. I mean,...

Tara has always been under the impression that Kaysie is a recent ex, so she has little to do with the situation in terms of what's going on between TARA and MYSELF (which is what I'd like to remain...

Sigh. You aren't cheating because, and it's a shame I have to point out the obvious like this but... you haven't committed yourself to ANYONE yet. However, I agree with another poster that said games...

Okay, so I posted on a previous thread about a situation but I ask that those who have read about that to put it aside. This is about one girl and my relationship with her, nothing more.

So I met...

Nah, I like a girl to be loud too but not consistently. If she's loud the entire time I assume she's faking it at one point or another.

Unless he's gay, I guarantee he thinks of you in a romantic way. Reading into girls can be a mistake because they're tougher to read, but trust me... guys are much less complex. It's clear he's into...

She's the only one bakin' for me.


Yes, sometimes brownies are a nice treat as well. Or my favorite Italian dessert, TARAmisu. HAH!


I brush my teeth regularly.


Cookies Are A Sometimes...

Bingo. When I had come clean about Tara, Kaysie said "this is over, we're ****ing done!!" and sent me home. I never had more respect for her than I did on that drive back to my apartment. The very...

You're probably right. The tricky part is Kaysie and I were never friends first, we began as **** buddies. So ending whatever it is we have now might not revert to even a friendship. And I don't know...

THANK YOU! That is exactly why I posted here. I do feel bad about that month overlap, I feel bad that Kaysie is now skeptical of my now-legit friendship with Tara, and I feel bad that I have no way...

I think Kaysie DOES know this, yes. She also knows I would sleep with Megan Fox, Jessica Alba/Biel, Angelina Jolie, and Natalie Portman if the opportunity arose. But those opportunities are...

No one "pats me on the back" for sleeping with someone without commitment. But what you and some others fail to grasp is that what happens between consenting adults is between them. Kaysie and I have...

It's kind of like an exclusive "friends with benefits" thing. You don't want to be with someone that's sleeping around, at the very least to avoid getting a disease.


I am quite capable. I dated...

Uh, maybe for advice? Constructive criticism? Anything that might actually be useful? Last I checked, calling someone names never resulted in anything positive.


If only I had cheated. Too bad...

Haha I'm plenty socially awkward... not sure how can you can judge that based solely on my writing ability (?). I channel my awkwardness into humor, and as Marilyn Monroe famously said: "If you can...

For the record, both Kaysie AND Tara pursued me and both are fully aware of the situation. They can end the relationship/friendship anytime. Nobody is being held hostage or manipulated. My mistake...