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that is soooooo sweet. Good move.

BUT, don't invest too much into her. She just got out of a relationship, so she may just be drifting along.

Btw, keep these surprise things in moderation. You...

We lasted about a month. The first time was 1.5 weeks in. The second time was the a week in. And the third, was the week after.
I wouldn't say I broke up with him until the third time, really. I...

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UPDATE:
I texted him two days ago to see how he was doing. It was a very dry conversation, contrary to our normal conversation.
He hasn't said anything to me since. I think he's cut his losses...

Letting go might mean building something newer and stronger. Both with yourself and with your family.

Then save your marriage. But save yourself before trying to save someone else.

If you're religious: a family that prays together, stays together. Renew and regain your faith in God and...

Don't doubt yourself. You know the answers more well than I.
You have a plan, but don't get upset when it doesn't go your way.
The journey to self-discovery and self-love is a tedious one. I'm on...

Pretty much.

It's hard being rational in these types of situations, but I think I'm doing a good job so far. I'm not going to put my integrity on the line.

The saddest part in all this is that...

I'm not even sure if he's TRYING to be with me. He told me he has a lot of stuff going on and he's not ready. We said we'd be friends and keep each other around if we ever needed help... but I don't...

I'm quite young and have never been married, but there's something more going on than being 'in love' with another woman or not 'in love' with your wife. There's a lack of love for yourself and...

Background:
We're both college students. I'm 20. He's 21.

We met as soon as my relationship was crumbling with my ex. A week later, me and my ex break up. Me and this new guy begin talking....

This is terrible.

I wish you nothing but the best. I couldn't imagine the pain you're feeling. Please contact and talk to us on this forum. We want you to get through this in one peace.

One thing I've learned- get out before he does. Don't be left feeling heartbroken like me. And if you know your self-worth, you'd know you don't deserve any of his bullshit.

Confident and secure...

That's definitely true. A male's insight is really interesting, I swear.

Yeah. It really seems that way.

And he was never the 'jerk'. He's actually overweight, charming and seemed like the nicest guy on the planet. No offense, but it definitely surprised most people...

I thought it through. I know what I did was immature. But to be frank, that was one of the only times I really spoke up throughout the entire relationship. I feel like I put my foot down for the...

You guys are really thoughtful. I really appreciate it. =]

I think you're spot on, my dear.
My ex isn't with anyone, atm (not to my knowledge). And his ex-gf is in a relationship. If she breaks up, maybe they'll consider a future together.

Regardless, I...

Honestly, that sounds pretty reasonable. I know we just needed space, too.

And SCREW THAT! lmao I ain't taking his ass back for shit!

Thanks, girl. <3 I really appreciate your in-depth...

Lmao. I relate!
I am a fitness FREAKKKKK. My entire life revolves around being outdoors, salads (lol) and the gym. My ex was overweight but he wanted to lose weight but his inhibition and attitude...

Fingers crossed you read the thread. lmao -_-

She doesn't want you. Better to let go now, then later. I felt this way middway through a long relationship, and both me and my ex lost ourselves at the end.

She's being too detailed about it....

To be completely honest, he was madly in love with me when we began dating. But I became really depressed and upset in the relationship because he pretty much sucked the life out of me. Me being...

Touche. Maybe it's better not to dwell.