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The other day, I got into a debate with someone over revealing to a potential partner that he has cheated in the past.

(Just so we're clear, I've never cheated myself, and don't plan on ever...

My guess would be that she's keeping you around just in case anything goes wrong with this other guy, but the current priority lies with him. It could also be that she's getting to know this other...

Why would you need to copy all these posts for a therapist to see? I can't even begin to imagine how that would be relevant to getting a proper treatment. Look, just go see a therapist and do the...

Considering just how long you've been going at it with little to no success, wouldn't you say it's time for a new approach to the matter? I might even venture a guess and say that you've been in...

As long as you're willing to try and keep at it, that's what I'm getting at here. I do hope you realize that this has to be a continuous learning effort to even begin to see results - can't just...

Richard-

Did you completely overlook what I posted? I specifically stated to you that just because one person has their ideas about something (whether they came to their own conclusion or have...

I too agree with the comment about how you're looking for excuses instead of acting on the suggestions. Even if you feel you've already done something, you could always try and tweak the action and...

Like I said though, you need to find a therapist that's right for you - one therapist's approach doesn't account for all other therapists out there, as convenient as that generalization would be to...

As a somewhat depressed person myself, I'm going to second what searock said about seeing a therapist. I'm sort of in a similar boat myself (at least in terms of depression) and would see one right...

vashti-

I think Kyrina was quoting muddblood in her post.

Seeing as the question is already answered by so many, just wanted to say that for the record, I have never been drunk in my entire life and I'm now in my mid-20s. Some of us just don't care to...

I always found 'clinginess' to be one of the most ambiguous and frustrating terms in relationships. It just varies so drastically with every person you come across and I'm not just talking extent,...

maxmax-

I guess you're sort of agreeing with what I'm saying, but I'm wording it differently. Obviously if "you" can't do anything to change it, you have to accept it, but it's more worrisome...

Hairdos can always be changed anyway, generally speaking. What should matter, are those things that cannot undergo change or shouldn't change.

I'm going to say it sounds more like he's only sorry that he was caught. I mean, if he really felt guilty about what he did, I feel like it would have hit him much sooner and he would have brought...

As another shy guy speaking, I feel weighed down with pressure when it comes to having a conversation with someone I'm still getting to know, so if you're anything like me it may be worth taking her...

I'd say to let her be the one to contact you Alex. If she was the one that flaked (for whatever reason it may be), I'd expect that person to come back on their own terms with an explanation,...

True, but I also didn't want to say anything until I was okay with letting her know how I felt too. I also feel like she's probably seen me as a friend long before I even developed feelings for her,...

I'd say to not assume the worst until some actual time passes. For all you know, maybe something came up where she couldn't respond right away and is busy doing something she has to tend to. All...

So in case anyone who read this is interested in what happened, I did finally tell her tonight how I felt as I dropped her off at her house. It was especially difficult on me though, considering...

Well, I'd say it really comes down to what you value in life and what your priorities are; your love for your boyfriend or his credentials? Have you even talked to him about his future and is he...

I just came back here to find responses to what I said, but it appears Wakeup and Incog have beaten me to my response. It's all about staying open-minded about the details and the action itself. ...

Speaking as a guy, I also agree with the above comments about how she should be the one to deal with this problem, and like you said, you really don't want to start any drama yourself and appear to...

Well I know for one that I'm in a similar type of situation, except I'm a guy. I say it could go either way really. Every time my friend would ask me anything that might reveal my true feelings for...

I don't think there's any particular number. For me, I'd say it's more a deed you hold off on until you're in a committed relationship.