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You really are right. And i know its very unlikely im going to fall in love again any time soon lol. But the feeling of being in love is just incredible, when just hearing a name can make you smile....

She could have been trying to make contact. Just because she hasnt been giving out good signs she might be too scared to do it... Worried it will hurt too much to try and talk to you. She could be...

I do know that my previous relationships failed because of incompatibility... I just meant i didnt want to get too close before going out next time in case we are incompatible and i lose another good...

I get what your saying i guess. Its just i dont know when is the best to go for a relationship. Too soon and it'll go wrong... Too late and theres too much to lose. How can i get over this?

Bump :/ any more advice?

I am young and I guess you're right, but I always feel like I'm going to miss my opportunity and get too close. I guess its just all about taking the risk. Better to lose what you might have than...

Sad Bump :/

I see your point there. Yeah, she might not work but she's looking after a kid while you're out working, and thats a job in itself. And yes you might be doing a lot of chores, but I'm sure in time...

Get mad back, stand your ground. Tell him exactly how you feel and don't let yourself get pushed around. You're a human being too! It might be hard but you can't let him walk all over you

Well the sex thing shouldn't be a massive problem imo. If you're worried that there is a deeper meaning to it like she is losing interest in your relationship, then maybe, but maybe she just wants a...

Now, I don't have a problem with people who date a lot of people, but I don't like the idea of it personally. I tried going out with somebody just because I fancied them, and tbh I didn't get much...

Tbh he sounds like a right piece of work. Is he interested in you?

Make sure he KNOWS that you DO want to have sex occasionally (you do, right?) but that you do want it to be the be all and end...

Okay sorry, I understand some of your points (Although I don't agree with them) But I don't think you addressed them very appropriately. Love is a sensitive issue and everybody deals with it...

Oh nbt do shut up. 13? Understandably scared of relationships. The years after this are when a lot of people grow up. You are being absolutely ridiculous.

Make sure he knows you are still the same person and remind him of the sort of fun you had when you first started going out! Certainly dont change yourself for him. All i really look for in a girl is...

Women aren't over thinkers. Scared people are over thinkers. When you are worried about a situation you think of every possible out come and usual focus on the negative ones, or maybe the ones that...

I think not looking at you means he is uncomfortable. Possibly because he still feels something for you, whether that is just the remains of what was emotional attachment or a longing for me. I fear...

Okay thanks again. I'll bare everything you have said to me in mind if anything happens. I really appreciate it. Thanks :)

I'm not sure about her feelings by the way. (Sorry I missed something you posted earlier lol) She argued with me about it "Its not love! We havent know each other long enough! Your talking rubbish!"...

Thank you so much for the help. I really do appreciate it. I think thats all I needed. I am genuinely grateful for this, I just needed my head cleared, if you know what I mean?

Yeah. I already got over her once and then she came back into my life and left so quickly. Thats what hurt

Thank you so much and I'm so sorry to hear about your problem, obviously I know how you feel (kinda) and it sucks. I just know that if she starts to make contact again it will all repeat itself and...

Thanks for the help. What hurts most is I promised I wouldn't let a relationship come between us. That was one of the first things I said when we got together. And now it ****ing has!

I thought you might say that. Its hard though

I have already done all of this though. I am pretty sure she does not want to be more than friends. And I have stressed the fact that I don't want anything more many times and I think she gets the...