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She sounds sweet and I understand the feeling of wanting to better yourself which is really great. One thing I wouldn't warrant however, is to be a better person for her. From your post, it sounds...

Thanks for the reassurance. I mean it has been bugging me for a while.. Sometimes things get a little confusing. She's a different person now, but I guess I got used to how she used to be, since we...

Hi all,

Bio: I'm 21/Male, Ex is 21/Female.


A little background first. To keep things simple, I was involved in a 4.5 year relationship which ended at the beginning of year 2011. Things were...

The way he discusses things sounds pretty condescending.. It's like he is right even in being wrong. Stubborn.

But as mentioned by one of the commenters above, there is absolutely no point in...

Doesn't sound like too much to worry about.. I'd just let it slip. Some people are fb addicts and they post the slightest "interesting" things that happen in their life like.. "Omg a mosquito bit me...

You decide.. Do you want her back or not? Be honest with yourself. However, do consider other factors and don't just blindly follow your heart.

Check your brain history.. Maybe someone in the past was named Peggy that you really hated or bullied you or is named after someone in a movie which played a character that you hated! Just throwing...

Why not you talk to him and explain the situation as you have on this forum? At least you'll give yourself the opportunity to express your feelings for him to him and if things don't work out, at...

I guess if you really cannot deal with it then you just have to let her go. Best get someone who shares your values than live with someone who don't.

This is your decision to make, and I trust you...

Sex may be special to you, but there are people who take sex lightly too. No point trying to change that. Some people treat it like something special, some people don't.

LOL.. What an odd thing to say. If her name bugs you, why not just give her a pet name and call her that.. Nothing else you can do, unless you want her to change her name which I think is out of the...

On the contrary, it's a very real issue to some. It all depends on your views about sex.

The way you feel about it is quite natural I would say. If I were to imagine myself in your situation, I'd...

Yes you should've just stayed in line and got the bra. You're not guilty of anything but I guess you just panicked. Tell your bf EVERYTHING. Explain it properly and I'm sure he'll understand. Small...

I understand.. Took me awhile to get it into my head. What I don't respect was the way she went about it. I'm pretty reasonable, and if she'd explained things to me, it would've hurt a lot less for...

When I do that, it means that I wanna take care of her and treat her like a princess :)

Could mean a lot of things.. Different guy, different meaning. Anyhow, it's a sweet gesture as I find that a...

Indeed a lot of people our age went through the same thing! One of my close friend too had the misfortune of going through a crappy situation like this.

Like your ex, my ex pretty much went...

Wow.. Your situation sounds so close to what I'm going through.. The coincidence is almost uncanny.

If he needs some space, then give it to him. But be aware that the relationship is already flailing on his end. Just bear in mind that the reasons that he's giving you may not be true or is more...

That sucks and I can imagine how you feel. Like what IncognitoSir said, don't bother what she's saying. Rather, take an honest look at what she is DOING. Do you want that? Would you like that kind of...

Yes.. I think he's pretty much not gonna change. For your emotional well being, find someone else who have "boundaries" more closely matching to yours.

He is taking you for granted.

Sit him down and talk about it seriously, with the main goal of achieving something. Give him a target, and make sure he follows through.

Having said that, it also...

Sounds like she's stringing you along mate. She doesn't want to give the commitment.

Also, you should start re-thinking whether she's really worth it. Sounds like she's giving you a lot of shit,...

Well said.. Don't care what others think. A relationship needs commitment. It comes naturally, and if you love that person, it really isn't that hard. Yeah some of em just yell out proud saying how...

Whaaaatt....???

Though I agree that the cheater cannot cheat without the 'cheatee' allowing the person to, the cheater is still very much in an advantageous position so to speak. Undeniably, a cheater should not...