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Okay, well, progress-wise, i guess im partly away from my nice guy syndrome for right now, and i'm trying to form myself into an assertive 'Alpha Male'(a blend of a jerk/nice guy, a guy who knows...

listen to the post above bout the whole caloric intake thing, have an adequate amount of fat, alternate between cardio/resistance day by day(have a rest day inbetween) and you can try to have 5-6...

from my own personal experiences, saying *I love you* to a girl HAS to have meaning behind it(otherwise i dont even bring it up), and that means getting attached.......

idk, i guess i will try to be more assertive and less nice about things, and ill try to drop the whole jerk thing, dont really know how itd affect a girls natural outlook on him anyway

oh my god, your description describes how i was as a boyfriend all those years ago with a girl i've dated long term, and yea it involved yugioh as well.

The reason why he's spending so much is...

do you mean assertiveness like this?-

http://stress.about.com/od/relationships/ht/howtoassert.htm

cause if thats what it really is, i feel like itd jus make me sound more nice =/

haha this actually made me laugh a bit, in a good way =) I pictured someone taking those exact links from my computer and hitting me with it lol

well anyway, I think everyones a lil...

all of that is true i guess...it still doesn't change my opinion in my head that jerks will always win girls over with their cocky confidence, there's no competition, i label myself as a nice guy...

i dont take shots with them anymore cause as someone said here *dont go for a girl thats taken* and EVERY girl i meet is taken by some form of asshole already.

why even bother anyway the single...

im just speaking for woman in general because some really great girls from what i see are being lead on pretty badly yet they are all over these guys, THAT's why it's bothering me so bad, and i cant...

im surprised nobody got personal with me...

ive BEEN trying to be a *good guy* with confidence and all of that bullshit. My ranting came from the fact with the whole competition with the jerks,...

i've calmed down a little bit over it now, i was bitter about it because not only was it recent but it was just a build up of this over time with those dudes, at least i am HONEST about me not...

yea well, it's also more the reason to just stop trying, like say how could i be outgoing and funny and confidence while another guy whose an asshole is doing the same in a more cocky way and to a...

So yeah obviously from my username you see what i'm getting at.

Right now, i'm just very, VERY upset and jealous going around school working my schedules, and all i see are girls ALL OVER those...

yea very true man, my progress with getting myself out of the nice guy label, in a way i could say, has been a real mental journey for me. I've questioned everything i do (not even about girls, about...

that's some pretty good advice, i guess i could put that into my game plan somehow, by go with the flow i meant like, i guess i should say i'm not *challenging* and the typical small talk person...

well, i feel there's more to it then that but you are deffinately right, and i really, really want to do something about it, not for them but also for myself, it's still very nerve racking though lol

haha wow that was a VERY long read. I saw some traits in that link that i CAN relate to myself, though the parts where it says the nice guy feels he SHOULD get a girl for being nice and all those...

thanks for the responses =) yea those are some pretty good tips, i guess i will need to be a little more aggressive and take a litttle more initiative with the conversation instead of just overly...

Hey everyone, i know i'm new here and i haven't really introduced myself before posting this thread, so i guess ill just be straight to the point of why i'm here, specifically about my own problem.
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