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... and I realize I just dumped 24 years of supression.. sorry about that. I've been controlled and manipulated my entire life, and a large part of me is having trouble coping with this situation....

My manager has told me that he has seen no lapse in quality of work since the beginning of this... craziness.

I have been doing my best to keep my personal life away from my work life, but I felt...

I.. don't know. I just got a promotion at my work, so theres some good there. I think if it wasn't for the promotion, and if it wasn't for my company telling me they will take legal action to stop my...

My parents actually run a financial firm, and for several years used my name as a puppet to operate their business... ._.



I did block them, but I informed them that I have left a 3rd party...

So... what do I do? I have "proof" that I am getting blackmailed. A large part of me wants to give into his demands, but I have already given them $4000 2 weeks ago, and assumed $3000 debt from the...

As far as I remember, the agreement was per semester. Granted, its been 2 years since I graduated, and this agreement was made 6 years ago.

Unfortunately, they also had commit identity theft under...

It wasn't illegal, but it was morally wrong. Problem is, my mom was the one who told me to do it... and now she is threatening to sue me for doing it. :/



Sounds reasonable to me. Thanks for...

Apparently there is a common trend of tl;dr going on...



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My parents paid for my education 2 years ago. I am well into the working world living independently. My mom creating a...

The first time I got a C, I told my mom, and she told me to "change" the C to a B while copy/pasting it. So... I did as she said.

..And now she is threatening to sue me unless I call her within...

... welp, giving this thread a bump due to Ea Scarlet's gravedigging. (sorry)

The implicit threat I heard was:

If I don't give her a call in 3 weeks, she is sueing me.



Yes, but I did have a verbal agreement with my stepdad that he would only help me with my tuition...

Oh I did cut contact.

I changed my phone number, and blocked out their emails. However, their secretary can still email me, and I will call him on a blocked phone number to communicate. We are...

Well, my previous thread was: http://www.loveforum.net/threads/68191-Maybe-burning-bridges-with-parents...-help-please

Here is a bullet list of facts:

Mom does not like my girlfriend
Mom has...

Thank you very much, I just bought this book and look forward to reading it :)

I have printed out the first batch of emails, before I had cut ties with my parents, and gave them to my therapist. I'm meeting up with them on Tuesday again. I would have never considered therapy...

And finally (?)

My mom's reply (which google unfortunately allowed me to see despite me blocking my parents):



Soo.... my past few emails were made with hopes of revealing to my parents that...

Well...





So... maybe thats that....

I... don't know what to do :(

... I ... feel pretty uncomfortable right now.

Well... I wrote an email to my parents... I tried to be as civil as possible...



So... I tried to be polite here as possible.

My stepdad response has been (in 3 separate emails):

I think I paid my debt for my stepdad... I worked for him during my entire time at college, and continued working for him during my summers. While I had an internship elsewhere, he demanded that...

My last two emails I got from my parents were:




(I omitted names)

I really want to do this, however right now they are depending on a credit card in my name... so I would need to give them an adequate amount of time to make adjustments before I financially cut them...

So... my stepdad emailed and called me today. In his email he said:



My mom deleted me as a facebook "friend", and sent this email to me:



I feel physically sick, I don't know what I am...

Well... I just cut contact.

In bullet points I said:
* You lied to me
* you are dragging in my coworker, and throwing this drama at him
* you are harassing me while I am at work.

... And I...