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vashti makes a good point. The questions need to flow naturally into the conversation. You don't want it to sound like a polygraph exam.

Answer her questions, make some brief comments where...

Ironically, your epic fail method is the same thing every other guy does to make himself stand out :)

What happened to you two years ago is basically what you have to do. Every guy in the room...

Not that differently. She should be doing most of the talking no matter where you are. All you're trying to do early on is keep her talking.

One of the biggest complaints all women make is that...

It was doomed a *long* time ago. She should have dumped him by now. Instead, she kept letting it slide thinking that one day he'd wake up and magically change himself. And we all know how often that...

Why are you talking to begin with? When flirting and on first dates, your only role is to direct the flow of the conversation. Ask a question and then shut up so she can talk. Then ask another...

Most surveys (taken them for what they're worth, of course) indicate that the percentage of women who have/would cheat vs the percentage of men isn't as far apart as you might think.

I have...

I'm not calling her neurotic, I'm saying this obsession over privacy usually results from neurotic exes (though not in this case considering she was his first). And there is a BIG difference between...

First question: Maybe, maybe not. I try not to take personal calls in front of someone I'm dating. Not because I'm trying to hide it, more because it always ends with a 10-minute inquisition about...

Yeah, I wouldn't hold out for that perfect someone, but having your first time with a hood rat isn't that great of an idea. Only marginally better than losing it to a hooker.

Find a girl outside...

Like I said in the other post, the old dude from Grumpy Old Men was spot on. Invite her back to your place to see your man-sized manicotti :)

And let me know before you do it. That clip will go...

The general tone of the post sounded like the kind of trolls you sometimes see on boards like this. And thanks for the Wikipedia copy-paste. I had *no* idea what a troll was before now (yes, that was...

Yeah, there's not much you can do with girls like this. She's incredibly insecure, and you're just seeing the tip of the iceberg. You can't fix this kind of problem, she has to fix herself, and that...

You'll never know for certain if it is the right move, you just gotta assume that it is. Like they say, fortune favors the bold. If it really makes you unsure, go in 80% of the way. If she wants a...

I'm not surprised he refused to, I certainly wouldn't let my GF snoop around on my phone, email accounts, etc. It doesn't mean I "surely" have anything to hide. I also don't let cops into my house...

This has gotta be a troll, but on the off chance it isn't:

(1) So what if you're a geek? I work in IT, I spent my high school days taking programming courses and breaking into the network admin's...

Drunk dialing an ex isn't that serious, we've all done it at some point. If it is a one-time thing, there's nothing to worry about there. It doesn't mean he misses her, or still has feelings for her,...

Man, that's one f***ed up family.

To answer your question, my rule has always been: anyone staying more than a weekend requires the okay from *everyone* living there (mostly applied back when I...

Nonsense. I know many people who have been together for several decades without marrying and who have no intention of marrying. Not staying with someone you don't see a future with, okay, but not all...

I wouldn't apologize. She's just trying to keep you around in case things fall through with the next guy. Next time she calls, tell her you don't think the two of you can continue to be friends under...

If it were the weekend immediately after moving, then I could understand, you'd have excitement of moving together and tons of work to do getting unpacked and organized. But you're talking about...

That's asking a lot. Accompanying the pres. of an association on a business trip is a big deal. Unless there is something special about that weekend (birthday, anniversary, etc) I think you're asking...

It is an excuse, no question. but it is also a *valid* excuse. As long as he is in school, his studies should be his absolute #1 priority. That's the pitfall of dating while in school.

As far as...

The crazy ones are fun...for a while. Then you've gotta move along.

The first twenty seconds of this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tF8soqX_6kw

Okay, so maybe not.

I have to admit, I love being single. That said, I grew up alone (single mom working long hours, no kids in my neighborhood and not near any of my schoolmates), it is what I know and is when I am...