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She has every right to be angry, and as no one bothered to tell me that I shouldn't be be angry or upset to the internet for my warped games, she has every right to tell the internet how I've made...

She's defensive because the one person she trusted to defend her, didn't, and actually turned on her. She's rightfully angry at me, and about this game I've put here. She's not being overly upset...

Actually, the sad thing here is, the past 3 days of this, is probably more that I've given her in 14 years.
Yes, we've split, and yes, -I'm- this ****ed up.

She's here to defend herself because...

Hard to communicate with a self absorbed bastard.

She's been the one trying. She's been the one fighting all this time, and I've done nothing but fight back.
She's the one thats made our home, and our life. And she done it while under constand fire...

What's in denial? I've blamed her, and accused her to the point where she's asked herself what's wrong with her.
This is nothing new. The only thing new, is I've turned around, and taken it to a...

Why? Did your family suck?
There should always be time for everything that is required. People want to be selfish, and self absorbed like I have been, and try to use everything as a reason about why...

I have been focusing on the wrong things, like sex, and blaming her for my own short fallings.
I have shown her many, many, many times that I didn't thing she was important, or mattered. Instead of...

The answer is that I've been trying to hide my problems by arranging and creating issues I have used to blame her.

The initiation thing is due to the fact that I havn't been leaving any healthy...

Two problems.
A) You're gonna have to 'train' them all. Each woman is different, and your idea of skill may very not match their previous experience.
B) Why don't you drop the 'training' mentality?...

5 pages of posts? Nope, didn't read past the 1st one.

You could do with a little attention to your reading as well. I said use -verbal- ques.

Why waste time letting a man -guess- what the...

Uhm, direct them? Tell them when they do something you like. Speed it up, or slow it down, use verbal ques, etc.

I would avoid making negative comments, but focus on the things you like.

My...

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hatred or intolerance of another race or other races.

He's a racist by -your- definition. And ignorant by -mine-. The dictionary isn't going to settle the difference. Sorry.

While this may well hurt your chances, I think letting something like that 'hide' in the background might come back and end something good.

Tell her upfront, you'd like to invite her over for a...

Not striking me as racist off the bat. Just really friggin ignorant.

Racists are more hate based, and from what the things you say he's said, I wouldn't say it's hatred, just stupidity.

Not...

Sounds like you've already done the reasoning to pursue this relationship further.

Both people have mentally unstable, abusive partners, both are unhappy...

Why you asking exactly? For people...

or hers.....

I don't rely on 'science' that offers no variable information.

At no point does it mention, nationalily, age, sexual orientation, or even pre/post puberty information.

I've also read science...

I have no doubt that it's fun, at least she appreciates it.

Then do nothing, and never know.

You're going to lead a mighty lonely life if you're not willing to risk some emotions.

What a load of horse shit.

Must have been written by a woman, or one of those touchy feely self castrated men.

Bunch of reasons.
Some view it as weakness, or lack of self control/discipine.
Men, for the most part, are raised to remain functional at all times.
Many were raised by emotionally guarded men, as...

Consider it a theory, and test it out.
Only way to know either way.

I have far higher domestic skills than my wife, and sadly, it just gets me more work.
So whether a woman's impressed or not doesn't mean much to me, just adds to my work load.

Though, my wife's...

at least they are 'safe' as weapons...