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In my opinion, if she really loves you, she would try to make up things with you first before jumping into any relationship. Unless, she doesn't feel anything towards you anymore. Sorry..

Yes, you should ask her out on a date. I was in a similar situation, falling in love with my best friend of 7 years. I took that chance, and now we're together. So, good luck!

I'm a bi, but I've been dating women for the past 10 years. Currently I'm also in love with my best friend of 7 years who is a lesbian and it doesn't make things easier for me. The fact that she is...

Nope. It depends on how they feel towards each other and whether they want do bring the friendship to the next level.

My ex cheated on me and she dumped me 2 months ago. I know how it feels like. I also never thought she could do such thing ever. Even my friends don't believe it at first. It doesn't seem like her at...

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Hi there, welcome.

First, you need to accept the reality that it's over and start to focus on your healing process.

I also just got out of a rough break up not long ago. We've been living together for 3,5 years and...

you definitely need to tell that guy first.

Maybe, you can ask her out on a date, but not to that hotel. You don't want to scare her off if she's not ready yet. You can take her to a more neutral places like going to the movies, or dinner...

I think you should stay away from him and find a decent guy who can respect you.

She's a full on lesbian. Been on a date with several women since her early 20s. She tried to be with a man a few years ago (I witnessed that phase) but she couldn't and ended up broke this man's...

Thank you everyone for the advice.

Just an update,

She texted me again that night and asked me to not bring that issue again. Well, Ok, I take it as she doesn't want to talk about the...

I'm in a confusing situation with my best friend (I'm 31, she's 40).

We've been best friend for 6 years and we were both in and out of relationships with a few people. During those times, we...

Just an update,

After 2 weeks went NC, I feel much better. Hanging out with close friends has helped me a lot. Right after I felt better on day 14, she texted me (on day 15). What a timing, huh?...

you need to stop it. there's no point of being jealous of his ex - they don't even talk anymore and they aren't friends. if you don't stop, you will drive him away. trust me.

Nicely put. Although NC sucks, but I think it's for the best. Looking back, I was really depressed because after broke up with her I was still living together with her for a month. Seeing her growing...

Yes, go on NC again and try to focus on your healing process. Stay strong and good luck.

welcome to the site, and if you find Cupid, do let me know :)

Hi Lola, welcome to the site. I also join this site with the same reason like yours. It helps me a lot being here :)

I think you already know the answer. Don't put your hope too high, I'm afraid you'll get hurt. I mean if he wants to get back with you, he wouldn't walked out on you like that, don't you think?

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Yes. She's still alive, though. How about you?

this actually bring tears into my eyes right at this moment. this is how i'm feeling too..

Interesting point of view.

But being detached is hard. Especially when I'm still in love with her. Maybe when my feeling for her has completely gone away - or at least the biggest portion of it,...