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  1. The conversation happened a little bit tonight...

    The conversation happened a little bit tonight and the night before so it's still fresh. I mean I understand the burden she has to bear, but a part of me just feels like i'm being robbed everytime...
  2. Should I work on it or should I let it go?

    The situation i'm having is that I have been seeing this girl for about 3 months now, but i've known her for much longer than that. She has a child and an ex bf who is a deadbeat. So basically we we...
  3. Yes I know. All of you guys warned me, my friends...

    Yes I know. All of you guys warned me, my friends warned me, my family warned me, and I did it anyways. There's no excuse and I deserve what i'm feeling right now.
  4. It's official. I'm a complete and total moron...

    Yes, pile it on because I deserve it.....

    To cut a long story short I posted here many times about an ex gf I had who had a long distance bf and didn't tell me about him for 8 months until I...
  5. Because the other guy was someone she saw once a...

    Because the other guy was someone she saw once a year at most. Basically, I was the only one she was with physically during that stretch of time, and the other guy lived hours away and she would talk...
  6. First off, I must say that this thread was...

    First off, I must say that this thread was written like a true college student, haha I like it!

    To address the issue at hand:

    If you're already paying the entire cost to come see her and she is...
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    As someone who considers myself an expert on this...

    As someone who considers myself an expert on this bullshit now, don't respond. lol... My ex is the queen when it comes to doing that. Probably legitimately at least 20-30 times where I told her I...
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    If the guy is really interested, as someone...

    If the guy is really interested, as someone previously said he will show the initiative. But, you're only 16, you'll learn.
  9. Yes, all of that is true... but yet I just can't...

    Yes, all of that is true... but yet I just can't help this constant feeling of being drawn to her. On paper or in typed or spoken form, these issues look like no-brainers but when you actually go...
  10. The problem is that she's actually NOT right...

    The problem is that she's actually NOT right beside me, and that's most likely why i'm kind of tripping out right now.. We haven't seen each other in about 3 weeks now, because we're in a long...
  11. ^^ Thanks for that really insightful advice. So...

    ^^ Thanks for that really insightful advice. So what exactly happened when you went back those 2 times?
  12. Well, I guess to answer your question and to...

    Well, I guess to answer your question and to provide more detail, the 8 prior months i'm referring to we weren't dating the entire time. The first few were just us talking and getting to know each...
  13. Yeah, I did feel betrayed by what happened and in...

    Yeah, I did feel betrayed by what happened and in some ways I still do. I actually asked her (back when I responded) if she was looking for forgiveness as a way to deal with her guilt. She responded...
  14. The problem is that while i've said all the right...

    The problem is that while i've said all the right things, told her to go away, ignore and erased all further messages it really just stirred up all those old thoughts and feelings of what if... All...
  15. That is exactly it! Every part of my being tells...

    That is exactly it! Every part of my being tells me that this girl is trouble, but the physical connection is the only part that makes me ignore the rest of it. Because if I had to sit down and come...
  16. ^^ You're absolutely right.. I mean I can't lie,...

    ^^ You're absolutely right.. I mean I can't lie, it was really a physical attraction that kept me around as long as I was. My current gf is certainly attractive but this girl was by far the most...
  17. Thanks all! I think I had a momentary lapse but...

    Thanks all! I think I had a momentary lapse but i'm not gonna let her tempt me anymore. She was out of my life for a reason and it's gotta stay that way, she had her chance!
  18. Yeah she is really great to me. And in fact I...

    Yeah she is really great to me. And in fact I told her about this situation (of course not quite in the same way i've put it on here), and surprisingly she didn't get all upset with me like other...
  19. The problem is that I got into an exchange with...

    The problem is that I got into an exchange with her and now she feels like the floodgates are opened. Now she sends me text messages day and night saying how she loves me, how i'm the one for her,...
  20. I completely agree with this. Because when I...

    I completely agree with this. Because when I lashed out at her, she said to me "if you're really happy with your girlfriend then what reason do you have to be upset with me?"
  21. My ex is finding new ways to tear me apart... what am I supposed to do?

    My ex who I was very much in love with for a long time had a long distance bf while we were dating which I didn't know about for 8 months, as i've posted on here quite a few times. For 2 years I...
  22. Am I overreacting or do I have legitimate reason for concern...

    Basically to make a long story short there is this friend i've had for the past 5 years. She's older than me but she was a senior in College when I was a freshman. We became pretty good friends and...
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    Ok so as an update, after receiving advice from...

    Ok so as an update, after receiving advice from several people about the matter, along with the couple I got advice from on here, the general consensus I got was to take it slow and easy and don't...
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    Yeah, not close at all. I live in New York and...

    Yeah, not close at all. I live in New York and she lives in Atlanta. However she has vacation time coming up next week and said she wants to come to NY so I kind of have a fast decision to make on...
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    Yes, I suppose your right about me overanalyzing....

    Yes, I suppose your right about me overanalyzing. It's just that I have two friends who have been in certain situations with women that have children and it's making me kind of cautious. The first...
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