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    Can you get a better paying job where you live? ...

    Can you get a better paying job where you live? Can you get a second job where you live? Could you get a job where your girlfriend currently lives? Good luck getting anyone to finance your own...
  2. My first instinct is to tell you to cut your...

    My first instinct is to tell you to cut your losses and move on. At 4 months, you should not be fighting like this and overhearing him talk about you like that to someone else on the phone. Yes,...
  3. Has anything significant changed in his life...

    Has anything significant changed in his life recently? If not, do you think he could be bored or feel complacent in his life and maybe feels some anxiety about that. Maybe he's struggling at work,...
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    I know rejection sucks, but I honestly think...

    I know rejection sucks, but I honestly think there's some power in understanding that nobody is obligated to like you. As long as you are happy with who you are and what you have going on in your...
  5. Keep us posted.

    Keep us posted.
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    In my experience, when someone is interested in...

    In my experience, when someone is interested in you, they make a lot more effort to talk to you and get together. It sounds like he doesn't care all that much, to be honest. If it takes this much...
  7. Right, so the problem is that you aren't happy...

    Right, so the problem is that you aren't happy with the situation and you don't feel like a priority in your relationship. You need to talk to your boyfriend about that and try again to come to some...
  8. I notice a few things that could be the issue...

    I notice a few things that could be the issue here:

    1. You don't trust these neighbors/your boyfriend and you don't want them to be friends
    2. Your boyfriend isn't making you feel like a priority...
  9. I'd greet her with a warm "hello, nice to see you...

    I'd greet her with a warm "hello, nice to see you again", and if her body language suggests a hug, then hug her.
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    It doesn't sound like much of a friendship to me....

    It doesn't sound like much of a friendship to me. Something seems amiss with your ex and the girl on the trip. We can't be certain anything happened while they were away, but it seems suspect that...
  11. Your parents sound judgmental. Maybe wait a bit...

    Your parents sound judgmental. Maybe wait a bit longer to introduce new women to your parents. If you like her, ignore what they are saying for now and get to know her better. Feel out the...
  12. Clearly all he wanted was sex. Guys will go to...

    Clearly all he wanted was sex. Guys will go to extremely lengths to f.uck a woman, it's actually insane the things guys will do to get with a woman. If you aren't ok with friends-with-benefits,...
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    We can't tell you where this is going. The only...

    We can't tell you where this is going. The only person who can do that is this woman. Ask her what she thinks of you two together, and ask her what her expectations are. Go from there and see what...
  14. He doesn't want to date you and you need to...

    He doesn't want to date you and you need to respect that. He was very clear in his desire to keep your relationship strictly professional, and he does not want to start a romantic relationship with...
  15. Yeah, it doesn't sound like he is cheating on you...

    Yeah, it doesn't sound like he is cheating on you or anything like that; but his reluctance to understand and acknowledge your feelings about this is a big problem. Like I said, either the screaming...
  16. Truthfully, I think at this point you need to...

    Truthfully, I think at this point you need to talk to these neighbors yourself. Either your boyfriend is hiding something or he genuinely lacks any capacity to confront people, but either way it...
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    I think it could have worked if she talked to you...

    I think it could have worked if she talked to you about it rather than moved out while you were out of the house. I understand her need to help her family, but she said she needs to work on being a...
  18. It seems more like she's into casual dating than...

    It seems more like she's into casual dating than a serious relationship. But you'll never know unless you ask her. Why don't you just ask her what she thinks and how she feels about you?
  19. Thread: whoa!

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    If you're worried about getting pregnant then...

    If you're worried about getting pregnant then start using birth control. Use condoms until you get your IUD (it's effective as soon as it's in place, so you don't have to use a back up method of BC,...
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    He's needy and insecure and displaying signs of...

    He's needy and insecure and displaying signs of controlling behavior. You should dump him, because this guy does not sound like good boyfriend material. You even said, you barely know him, and he...
  21. You sound judgmental about it. Chances are they...

    You sound judgmental about it. Chances are they live there because that's where they can afford to live. You will never know for sure if someone is safe, or if they have ulterior motives masked by...
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    You were a rebound. You won't win her back. You...

    You were a rebound. You won't win her back. You can wait for her if you want, but that could mean waiting for a really, really long time, and even still, chances are she won't come back to you at...
  23. I think in some ways you are overreacting and in...

    I think in some ways you are overreacting and in other ways, you're not. I think the issue about the jewelry would seem a lot less significant if she didn't spend so much time talking to him. ...
  24. Thread: Demanding?

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    Kristin99, have you been able to talk to your...

    Kristin99, have you been able to talk to your boyfriend about this situation yet?
  25. Thread: Demanding?

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    What's the common denominator in your experience?...

    What's the common denominator in your experience? You. Either you're choosing the wrong people to start relationships with or meeting them at the wrong time. Save this for your own thread that's...
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