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P.S....like I stated before and you chose to ignore, there has been no cheating, no lack of impulse control......so please tell me why your comments are relevant to my situation, i would really like...

Ok Vashtii, whatever you may believe or have read, this is a real problem that my girlfriend and i have to deal with, maybe OCD?, maybe other issues, who knows?.....But know that her therapist calls...

wow,Vashti, Not sure if you just don't understand or don't read everything....maybe you have been cheated on by someone who says they were a sex addict?..I don't know, but if you are interested...

I do suppose you have a point. I do also believe whoring denotes multiple partners also...correct?.....I am no expert in this matter, but that is why I am here......btw, this thing that she suffers...

i am pretty sure whoring has something to do with the gain of other things, like money, power, marriage, etc.....nothing to do with love

Vashti, I am sorry you dont believe in sex addiction. By definition it means; using sex for other reasons than pleasure...In this case, she uses it to measure love. ....I have to admit, I did have a...

Thanks to both of you for the advise, it helps.....to Pisces25, she has been seeking professional help for a few years now, this is the only way she is even in a relationship, this problem has broken...

Well Jensen, i am a guy with a bit more time and experience under my belt( I'm 42)...While I do understand what you are saying, it is really just you, not her past that is haunting you. I have felt...

Hi all....I am in need of a bit more advice

My GF and I are truly in love, but there are some things getting in the way. For starters, she is a sex addict, dont get me wrong, the sex we have is...

its not what you would think. I have recently had a fight because i didnt get off soon like other guys she has been with....isn't the point to last longer to make sure the woman get off 1st?....I was...

this is something we always will have thoughts of when it comes to X's....trust is one thing but you really have to know what the other is thinking when it comes to this, dont be afraid to...

thank you...I agree with this only because that is what i am doing right now....wow...I might have made a good decision ...was looking for someone else to say it just to make sure....;).....you seem...

dont worry about it...my 1st advise, it will only make it worse........seems like nervousness might have a little to do with it, just try to relax and focus on what turns you on(with ur GF).....maybe...

she does....she knows her issues all too well, and that is why she is a sex addict, because she cant resolve them....her therapist loves me for hanging in there , but we all know, I cant do it...

hahaha....dont worry yourself so much....seems to me , the hard part for you is over....you have accepted that your GF is better than the rest, its the hardest part to get yourself to believe. You...

hahaha...thanks for assuming its not me that is a fruitcake..:-)......but she has been through alot in her life....been raped when young.....and is a verified sex addict ...sometimes people dont have...

she tells me to be myself, and also says she does not want to change me....she tells me things that will help her, but when i do these things she changes the rules

i have been doing all the right things in my current relationship, been understanding, fun, loving, helpful, and trying to do everything she asks. BUT, it does not seem to be enough, she is so...

I do agree with all of these, and i do them....but what do you do if it si not enough and she tells you what she wants then changes her mind when you do them?

My name is Mike, I am 42 and a veteran of many failed relationships. I have learned about myself and solved my pasted issues, now i find myself in the best relationship I have ever been in, with the...