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A few months. But we were engaged a few years ago and have a child.
So of course i love him

Why would he ask me this?

So we had further talks and he asked if i wanted to be his girlfriend, so woohoo we got there!

2 days later though, he sent a message asking if i love him.
I...

I bought her some trousers that fit her. I got no thanx, no nothing. But hey ho ... as long as shes happy

I think she is just far too immature for a full blown relatio ship.
From what you have said, you have done nothing wrong. Even when you do right, it is wrong in her eyes.

You have tried, and you...

Yes you are right. I need to relax lol.

Just last week, i decided to show him more affection than usual, going off him saying he felt akward.
It must have been a good thing me doing so, as the...

Its possible. He told me last night that he feels awkward when he first sees me. Hes unsure as to whether he should give me a kiss or a hug and feels a little awkward for a while.
Yet in the...

Been seeing him for a few months, seeing each other regularly 2-3 times a week.

Hes not texting me as much anymore, and is a bit more blunt in the texts when he does. Like making it obvious he...

My 10 year old daughter wanted some new school trousers.
She didnt need them.
So i bought her a pair aged 11-12 as there was no 10-11.

A week prior to this she wanted some.leggings and told...

No i dont think you did miss out on marrying the love of your life.
You said you knew him your entire life, so you know if he was genuine or not. I think he was, and you had plenty of...

That is really difficult considering i like him so much. But i will try.
As for contact, he made up for it with a few hour long conversation and arranged the plans i thought he would cancel.

I...

A few months and see each other 2-3 times a week. We have been in a long term relationship a few year ago and have a child together.

I think im just being stupid and panicking.
Ive just stepped...

So since i had the "what are we talk", which seemed to go okay.
He still stayed the night (although it was late) but left earlier than normal the next day.
He isnt contacting me as much anymore...

Had contact. I can rest again now. All seems good

No i havent read that book. I might order a copy.
I have been telling myself he is probably processing it all.
I am just leaving him to it either way.

Yup, definitely better to find out if...

Wellll....so far this is the longest we have gone withot any form of contact. Hmmm

Uhh i didnt want to come on too strong! Wish i had said it now!

Thank you :-)

No i didnt tell him i loved him. I do. But i dont think i should tell him that yet.

Yeah you have a point in door mat behaviour if i didnt tell him my wants and needs. I am pleased i did talk to...

You are right. It isnt a bad thing that he isnt telling people. If anything he isnt allowing others to influence his decisions.
It seems he is willing to give it another go, which i dont really...

Im pleased i had the talk now. Once everything has settled in my mind. I completely understand everything - especially with his parents.

Nothing seems to have changed between us.
He kept asking...

Ive done it. I asked. He freaked out a little, in a not expecting it way. Says the reason he isnt telling his parents is because they would have something to say.

He would/will if and when he is...

I understand what you are saying.
It really seems as though she isnt as interested as you.
By stopping contact with her, you will then be able to see if she is in fact interested.

If she...

Basically, you have to fake it til you make it.

Go in that pub, with false confidence. Literally, just ACT. Keep it up, once you have spoken to one you will ease a little, which will feed this...

I would advise that you leave her be. Give her time to miss you and think of the relationship that you did have.
If you keep contacting her, then she is not getting that chance to miss you.
If...

You are wrong, im afraid. I can see why she isnt actively engaging in conversation with you.
If you are getting annoyed at her for an interview that is for her, because she isnt being as serious...

I find her behaviour very nasty, and controlling.
I wouldnt suggest counselling, as im sure she would manage to flip it all to you being the problem and talking about all of 'your' issues.

You...