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Hello!

I'm just curious, how would you construe this question if your bf/gf asked it?

Thanks!

Well, you are 100% right...he wants me to wait for him. And it is not the first time I have this feeling. Whatever the reason is, because he has feelings or not, I admit it is selfish. And I have...

Thank you for your answer. Yes he will probably tell me something like that. And I'll tell him that I couldn't tolerate his behaviour.
But again, i'm really relieved to know he took the final...

Yes it is one of the main concerns. he doens't give straight answers. He told me once that he didn't know what to do anymore. And another time he told me that It was too hard to decide anything, and...

Thank you for being understanding. I know I sound desperate in many of my posts. I will "wait" for his mail but till then, I can live :-)
He's the one to react now so I won't do anything any longer,...

I am emotive, if this is what you want to know. But don't go think that I am so unhappy. I am sorry for not being clear enough in my writing. One of my biggest flaws is to amplify my feelings. But i...

Okay I exagerated, I dont spend most of my time crying, It was just a way to say that i was unhappy. But I haven't cried that often, just a few times, and I wrote that that day because I was feeling...

What makes you think I can't do anything while I'm waiting? I go out see friends, go to the movies, I play the piano, I work. I am not sticked to my phone and mail box waiting for him to answer me.

But this, he doesn't know it.

my entire life is far from being based on our relationship...

Dependant? Can you please explain how I am dependant? You have to be aware that he doesn't know that I'm posting here! I never call him, rarely text him, only when I do not feel good! and it is...

Dependant? Can you please explain how I am dependant? You have to be aware that he doesn't know that I'm posting here! I never call him, rarely text him, only when I do not feel good! and it is...

Dependant? Can you please explain how I am dependant? You have to be aware that he doesn't know that I'm posting here! I never call him, rarely text him, only when I do not feel good! and it is not...

Dependant? Can you please explain how I am dependant? You have to be aware that he doesn't know that I'm so "dependant" as you say! I never call him, rarely texte him, only when I do not feel good!...

Searock, I respect your opinions though I don't agree with them. That's all. We don't share the same vision of a couple.
My friends told me that he loves me, one even told me it was obvisous but...

"I wouldn't want to be with someone like you either" How can you judge me like this?!?! someone like me, which means? He didn't break up because of my "personnality", he broke up with me because he...

I have to wait for his mail, that's all. He said in his text message that he didn't give me a straight answer because it couldn't hold in a text message and I believe him! It's not possible to give...

Yes, he will give me more explanations till then. But since I texted him several times before his "decision" that I was suffering too much, he may have taken this decision "by force" because he...

Please don't say he is not in love with me or that he's manipulative, you don't know him so please don't judge people you don't know just because I gave you facts about a relationship :-(. I myself...

When I come to his town, his unavailability is not due to the fact that he prefers to see his friends than me...He rarely sees them. The only reason why he sees them is for his rehearsals for his...

and him and I have already talked about sex relationships, we both know what we are looking for. Not for sex. I know him well enough for this. And I come here because our relationship is still...

Then how do you explain all the moments, all the days we have spent together without sex? I think you don't get it, everytime I came to his town, we didn't always had sex. And even if it's the case,...

I' am not asking you to judge my relationship... :-s no one here knows me or him so I don't understand how you can tell that our relationship was nothing more than sex. I know It is not. All I'm...

I didn't have the courage to break up with him so I just sent him messages telling him that I was suffering from his silence...and told him that he didn't have to think wether I could have hope for...

:-) thank you very much for your help Searock...I'll see what I can do, I have already been given a sick leave by my doctor a few months ago because of my bf...he doesn't know it but i was feeling...