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I disagree with Limon.. i think you should totally give her the clean break she asked for 100%.. give her the time/space she needs and let her come back to you when she is ready. i have asked for a...

HAHAH!! :)

well, OP, it sounds to me like they were just two girls who were buzzed, flirty, and out to have a good time. Who cares? we have all done stuff like that before.. gone out and had fun...

i totally agree with this.. the only way to know for sure is to contact him and find out. just do it..

thanks.. this has been great advice!! he has talked to me several times again since.. small talk stuff still.. nothing serious or even asking to see me again. Nothing like that, yet. Just asking me...

I hope you are right! And i would have thought so if his attitude towards me had not completely changed after we had sex. And I find it hard to believe thats ALL he wanted because of the time,...

well good.. when he does.. i will see him and NOT have sex. in other words, do it right. then whatever happens after that, I will be OK with it. He contacted me tonight again.. with small talk.. how...

thanks xx- I guess all I can do is forget about it and move on :( Do you think he will want to see me again? I guess I feel like I want to redeem myself, and the only way that will happen is if he...

I met this guy about three months ago. He lives 150 miles away but we talked some, hung out and traded contact info. We started talking a little here and there then it grew to talking everyday. He...

If she is still calling you and wanting to see you then I would think there are still feelings there... give her as much time as you can but dont wait forever. At some point, that becomes unfair to...

Agape is exactly right. Easier said than done. Its so hard. :( But I have to.. and I will do it...

I feel like this situation is leading me towards becoming a screw buddy.. we have still been going back and forth talking/texting/emailing. here the past few days it has been mostly him initiating...

Ignoring her attempt to come back and acting like you dont care is the best possible revenge. That will drive her crazy.. guaranteed.

I have never even thought about this before.. guys thinking a vagina was ugly. huh.

yes I did end up responding to his texts and going to meet him. We had a good time.. watching TV and hanging out. So its too late now?? I need to really stick by what I know I need to do.. its just...

he just now texted me.. like three times. i havent answered yet bc I am not sure what to say.. he wants to see me to "talk". i feel like if i go over there the first time he asks then he is in...

I dont agree with this.. I have talked to many guy friends before who say there are times when they genuinely dont want a relationship.. even if the most perfect girl in the world walked in. I also...

I see what you mean... and maybe thats how he feels right now... and he is not looking for a replacement.. his entire issue is that he doesnt think he can handle a relationship.. it has nothing to...

actually, yeah.. he is.. just messed up, i think.

what?? why? bc I didnt 'put out'?? he is the one that said he wasnt ready for a relationship.. so why should i sleep with him?! geez...

I think you should move on.. this sound a little scary. I know you love him but it may not be worth it...

okay.. so my guy and I are not doing so great.. He has been acting really weird and distant. One week ago today, I went to his place to talk.. we stayed up all night talking, agreed to spend time...

His friend said she wasn't ugly anyway... I bet she really isnt that bad. I cant help thinking you are going to break this girls heart one day. I think its tragic that she sees herself as ugly.. if...

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so I went over there two nights ago to talk.. I felt like there were some things I needed to say to him. I had decided that for better or worse I was going to lay it all out on the ...

thanks for the posts. Right now I feel like I am never going to get over this. :( this just sucks.

i dont think telling him will help... seems like he is over it.