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yes I know, it's just frustrating when you've done well in everything in your life except this one area

So better to be louder and more flamboyant?

Thank you for the wise advice! At least someone appreciates shyness lol

Thanks for the answer. But aren't girls interested in guys to an extent where they'll maybe take some initiative?

I do have confidence but I don't know how to take the first step. I've been successful in so many things in my life except for dating and not being successful in that one thing just kills me.

Are girls into shy, quiet, reserved guys? I'm able to open up to people and be very social and friendly with them but I just have trouble taking that first step. I've only had 1 gf ever and I feel...

Are girls into shy, quiet, reserved guys? I'm able to open up to people and be very social and friendly with them but I just have trouble taking that first step. I've only had 1 gf ever and I feel...

Yes I do consider the fact that she partly approached me as something very special and worthy of praise because she chose to be a free-thinker and in a sense, a contrarian. She was the only one to...

Thank you once again for your wonderful and wise words of wisdom. It's a true testament to your character and it shows me the extent to which people are willing to help.

The reason that I see...

Wow what a response thank you! Just to clear up a few things up:

-my academics and future are #1 in my life and have always been #1 which is why I'm currently studying at one of the top technical...

The pain has just been with me everyday because it was such a huge loss to me since she was the only girl to ever come to like me and respect me.

Those words from my gf have resonated in my mind for over 5 months since she suddenly dumped me. I'm new to dating so I have 0 experience in this sort of thing. I spent my high school years as a...