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At the time he slept with her you hadnt even been able to kiss him as you were too nervous. It was really early in the steps you two were taking. Yeah it would be nice if he hadnt (your ego) but he...

Now that he has you maybe hes afraid of moving too fast because he has been comfortable with the way things were. Dont give all of yourself and leave him wanting you by being the busy bee that you...

He explains in email three weeks after breaking up with me (again) that what he said during break up was all a reflection of his own self loathing, projected onto me into the mirror (me).

Thing...

And no , he is not diagnosed. He was however diagnosed with PTSD over a year ago. And I read the two can be very related. If he one day seeks help for his patterns than he may be able to help...

ok that sucked, I just wrote to you in a reply and for the first time I didnt copy and paste before sending it makes me log in again and of course I got nothing but a white screen. sigh.

So I...

This post would get more attention under the 'love advice' thread. Focus on your goals and buy some toys for yourself ( yeah.. those kind of toys).. really! And also seems like you might do well...

Is control controlled by its need to control? That seems to be the theme to me. 5 years is alot of investment. He wants to have his cake and eat other cake. Did you have enough time to gain...

I just did a lot of research into mental instabilty and particularly aspects of bipolar's and it sounds similar/like warning signs. Just keep your boundries. Matters of the heart are supported by...

Well, I have been searching websites to see what I could find on Bipolar's of all types. I have read statements from people who love those with some form of Bipolar. Some didnt know till years...

Maybe shes in a manic state right now. OP, I think its time you get to the clinic for evaluation.

Wont you just forget everything you have built up in your head and take my advice as stated above, just rooooool with it. have our own fun.

And watch out for the damn birth control pill.. it can...

Watch it with him, he would LOVE it if he saw you were into it. My ex and I would take turns picking and we usually agreed on the ones we didnt like. ifeelmyself and ishotmyself are fun too. ooh,...

Agreed. But expect a retort as she will not want to lose you Im thinking. Would you do the take a break thing or did you already try that? I know, your young. But I can tell you that a pair of my...

Okay, the last bit made me laugh BackUporGetStng: " If he approaches you, ask him who he is and what he wants, repeat as necessary."

I know I have control over how things go now.. I didnt use my...

Oh brother, well shes honest I will give her that, although only after you called her on it, but still... honest.

Your mutual feelings seem genuine. And I hate to say it but at this point...

Gawwwd no woman! A man loves a mother! In fact you had better be MOMMA BEAR because you are considered easier prey by predators now that you have a child. The evildoers see you as weak with...

LOL, chiiiiiiillll , I was putting that out there because my girlfriend teasingly says that here and there (when my possibly bipolar now ex again bf would break up with me). And of course I have not...

bahahaha my 15 year old daughter who is such an independent cool chick got a snugie ( blanket shawl with arms type o thing from t.v-and I dont even stream t.v.) for Yule. Not from me. hahaha I...

Okay, the last bit made me laugh BackUporGetStng: " If he approaches you, ask him who he is and what he wants, repeat as necessary."

I know I have control over how things go now.. I didnt use my...

"he is the love of my life, we are together 3 years, and in the first year of sex was wonderful. He was hard all the time just by being near me."

This is a gift. After 6 years my bf was still...

Ouch. I have heard and read stories about men going throught these phases. It may pass with or without help.

I really hope you dont make a hasty decision and leave him for it. What if you TELL...

I am so sorry! I have feelings of being used to even if I wasnt. She broke your heart and now your left to pick up the pieces while she flaunts her expose all over Facebook. Shes probably a gold...

My friend likes to say: " To get over one man you have to get under another" But does that really work? Im not interested in trying as I see it to be no solution nor do I think about it, nor does...

oh man, i would just flip if i found out my ex lied about why he broke up with me. But, it also wouldnt surprise me at this point. This behavior is seen more in the youngins but it still happens...

fine so im glad im not kissing cao pi or girlygirl's, no really... :/