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We can all read the Bible and say we are devout Christians. The true test of this is behavior! Actions speak louder than words. Good luck to you. AnnS

btide15 - Who said, "even non-sexual people should be open to sex with their partner of 8 years?" Why would you believe that? She is TELLING you that she is NOT interested in sex. When do YOU take,...

If you want a non sexual relationship, then you have one. You have selected a non sexual girlfriend, and I'm so surprised that YOU won't take, "NO!," for an answer. What is it about her behavior...

Who treats someone like that? Well, for one, a sociopath. You might benefit from reading The Sociopath Next Door! It is a fabulous little book, an easy read, and you will probably have all your...

Interest in what he has to say. Engaging in the conversation and asking for his thoughts about the topic. Being humorous and seeing the funny side of life. Giving direct eye contact is a very...

Great question: Kindness, attention, honesty, trustworthiness, humor, respect, attraction, like interests, provide a foundation for love and sex. Build the foundation first. Ann

Unless you went to the doctor with this girl and heard what he/she had to say, we don't really have the facts. I can see where this is confusing because you have this woman telling you one thing,...

amatroll - indeed, you are.

I'd sit back and let him pursue you. I'd be a little less available. Get busy with a hobby or something. He has his own life - going to Australia - and you need to get one for yourself. Next, I...

I agree that the hair style takes away from your face. But, while you are a cute guy and all, what are you like on the inside, because that's where it really matters. Ann

And good for you. Karma WILL take care of it. It's great that you are a strong woman and not clinging to any fantasy that he will change. I always say, "When people show you who they are, believe...

Yes, You probably can if you find someone else way more interesting. I suspect you are enchanted by the mystery of it all. Good luck. Ann

From what you wrote, it sounds like she moves from guy to guy! Do you want a girl like that?

What a slime bag he is! Half way through your post, I thought, "this guy is married!" If I were you, I'd be so grateful that you escaped. I'd run! I'd never contact him or respond to his...

Do you think bullying someone will draw them to you? Really? Ann

When a guy tells a girl that she can do better, it can mean one of two things: 1. It could mean that the guy who is telling the girl she can do better thinks her current boyfriend isn't worthy of...

Oh - just an offer of help but never mind. I retract it.

So start by reading the newspaper. Are you up on current events? Go out and do things. My gosh, you live in a beautiful country (been there many times) and there is so much to do. Write me back...

Well, what do you think you need to do to, "un suck" in relationships. What do you do that makes you suck? Are you so needy that you push girls away? I just looked at your profile. You're 22 and...

Well, what do you think you need to do to, "un suck" in relationships. What do you do that makes you suck? Are you so needy that you push girls away? Write back and let us know so we can give you...

Are you saying that sex isn't emotional for you? and it's not bonding? You say you love this guy? I don't believe you. What a preposterous idea. Ann S

Are you hesitant about deeper conversation because you're shallow? or because you find yourself too vulnerable? or any other reason? I think it's always best to be honest. "Hi, I'm _______, I've...

Do you have any good female pals in your band? I'd ask them how you come across. You'll get an honest answer. You may not like the answer but with the information given to you, you get to make...

Thank you for explaining this. Yes, I can't imagine how difficult it is to live in the caste system. I have some friends from different castes who married and live here in America. They have a...

And why is a future impossible? Need to understand that before I comment. Ann