If I were as miserable as you seem to be, I would leave. Of course you'll miss someone who you've been with for 12 years, but is it worth staying with him and being unhappy?
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If I were as miserable as you seem to be, I would leave. Of course you'll miss someone who you've been with for 12 years, but is it worth staying with him and being unhappy?
Do you think it means that he wants to wake up and have his wife not be there? Why would you take it personally? Are you his wife?
Just tell him that you met someone else. He might be bummed out that you two won't be doing "more than friends stuff" anymore, but he'll get over it.
I would try to forget about her and move on with your life. After you don't see her for a while, the feelings will go away.
Maybe he's seeing someone else now, so he doesn't feel that it's right to be in communication with you.
Never be embarrassed about apologizing or doing what you think is right.
This may sound immoral, and many people may not like it, but I'm going to say it anyway. Get her drunk. REALLY drunk. And then just see what happens. If she's able to kiss you at that point, then...
If you're depressed, beat up someone smaller than you. That always makes me feel better!
Maybe he did something wrong, something you don't know about yet, something you'll get mad about. So he said what he said to make it seem like you did something wrong, which he can use to offset...
If you're at her house babysitting her kids while she's out dating other guys, then she's not interested in you. Unless you're getting a little loving after she gets home and the kids are in bed,...
They obviously like you, so it should be easy to save the situation. Bring her mom some flowers and her dad a bottle of scotch (or whatever he prefers to drink) and apologize for any...
I would threaten to abort your baby if things don't change. (Don't actually do it - just threaten it.) If he says "Go ahead" or doesn't seem to care, get out now and raise that baby by yourself.
I would say keep using a condom and wait for your relationship to get a little more serious before you approach her about getting tested.
Or you can try to subliminally plant the idea in her head....
It sounds like she's keeping you around until she sees how things will work with the new guy. It sucks to wait around in a situation like that, so don't wait. Force her to make a decision in one...
It takes a great deal of effort to break away from our natural inclinations. Although I believe that what we think of as our natural inclinations are actually just things that we've learned how to...
If a woman asks you if you've ever cheated, you say "NO"! No need to go into any more detail, no need to embellish - just a simple one-word answer. "NO"